1 00:00:38,709 --> 00:00:33,790 [Music] 2 00:00:42,049 --> 00:00:38,719 the smoke radio for the masses of July 8 3 00:00:44,450 --> 00:00:42,059 1947 the Army Air Forces has announced 4 00:00:50,529 --> 00:00:44,460 that a flying disc has been found and is 5 00:00:58,010 --> 00:00:54,170 I occasionally think how quickly our 6 00:01:00,590 --> 00:00:58,020 differences worldwide would vanish if we 7 00:01:01,710 --> 00:01:00,600 were facing an alien threat from outside 8 00:01:03,510 --> 00:01:01,720 this work 9 00:01:03,700 --> 00:01:03,520 [Music] 10 00:01:06,010 --> 00:01:03,710 [Applause] 11 00:01:08,990 --> 00:01:06,020 [Music] 12 00:01:11,810 --> 00:01:09,000 this is Fade to Black with your host 13 00:01:12,470 --> 00:01:11,820 Jimmy Church on the game changer Radio 14 00:01:16,210 --> 00:01:12,480 Network 15 00:01:21,130 --> 00:01:16,220 [Music] 16 00:01:26,050 --> 00:01:21,140 all right good evening Fade to Black 17 00:01:30,109 --> 00:01:26,060 bespoke radio for the masses 18 00:01:32,289 --> 00:01:30,119 yeah man how you doing today is March 19 00:01:36,410 --> 00:01:32,299 27th 20 00:01:39,050 --> 00:01:36,420 2023 and my guest tonight is me 21 00:01:41,990 --> 00:01:39,060 that's right tonight 22 00:01:46,490 --> 00:01:42,000 we are going to discuss 23 00:01:48,710 --> 00:01:46,500 the meaning of life and I'm gonna pop up 24 00:01:52,190 --> 00:01:48,720 the chat and I'm gonna have that in 25 00:01:56,149 --> 00:01:52,200 front of me tonight and I'm gonna be 26 00:01:57,889 --> 00:01:56,159 very interested in your comments and if 27 00:02:02,389 --> 00:01:57,899 you want me to respond to something put 28 00:02:05,510 --> 00:02:02,399 it in all caps the meaning of life 29 00:02:07,370 --> 00:02:05,520 all right we've all thought about it the 30 00:02:10,370 --> 00:02:07,380 meaning of life or you know the answer 31 00:02:13,130 --> 00:02:10,380 to the question what 32 00:02:16,910 --> 00:02:13,140 is the meaning of life some say it's 33 00:02:20,390 --> 00:02:16,920 coffee I might I might I might tend to 34 00:02:24,470 --> 00:02:22,910 specifically River Moon coffee faded 35 00:02:26,869 --> 00:02:24,480 black blend butts 36 00:02:31,190 --> 00:02:26,879 the meaning of life it's been asked for 37 00:02:35,330 --> 00:02:31,200 centuries if not millennia 38 00:02:37,970 --> 00:02:35,340 it is the big one isn't it 39 00:02:42,190 --> 00:02:37,980 so many philosophers were going to get 40 00:02:45,650 --> 00:02:42,200 into this uh theology 41 00:02:50,509 --> 00:02:45,660 diplomats scientists 42 00:02:52,790 --> 00:02:50,519 you know uh they're all going to give 43 00:02:55,009 --> 00:02:52,800 you their version of it 44 00:02:58,610 --> 00:02:55,019 um I'm gonna give you mine so don't you 45 00:03:02,750 --> 00:02:58,620 worry but I'm also going to give you my 46 00:03:04,790 --> 00:03:02,760 road map as well and leading up to all 47 00:03:06,050 --> 00:03:04,800 of this when we think about the meaning 48 00:03:09,530 --> 00:03:06,060 of life 49 00:03:13,970 --> 00:03:09,540 we sit back and we contemplate we think 50 00:03:16,369 --> 00:03:13,980 about that right and my answer which 51 00:03:18,949 --> 00:03:16,379 will be a little bit later 52 00:03:20,509 --> 00:03:18,959 because I'm going to set all of this up 53 00:03:24,410 --> 00:03:20,519 of course 54 00:03:27,350 --> 00:03:24,420 um I I think it's going to surprise you 55 00:03:29,390 --> 00:03:27,360 in all of my research and I've been 56 00:03:32,089 --> 00:03:29,400 trying to chase uh the meaning of life 57 00:03:37,330 --> 00:03:32,099 for a long time in all of my research 58 00:03:40,309 --> 00:03:37,340 you get these massive complicated 59 00:03:44,089 --> 00:03:40,319 statements about it and they're gnarly 60 00:03:46,789 --> 00:03:44,099 man something just like flew in my eye 61 00:03:50,869 --> 00:03:46,799 right there that's because 62 00:03:52,970 --> 00:03:50,879 they don't want me to disclose to you 63 00:03:55,250 --> 00:03:52,980 the meaning of life but we're gonna get 64 00:03:59,570 --> 00:03:55,260 there tonight 65 00:04:02,690 --> 00:03:59,580 so let's get started because 66 00:04:06,110 --> 00:04:02,700 I have stated many times on this show 67 00:04:09,110 --> 00:04:06,120 right that you know we have uh those 68 00:04:12,530 --> 00:04:09,120 three basic questions that have been 69 00:04:14,869 --> 00:04:12,540 asked since the dawn of man right why 70 00:04:17,390 --> 00:04:14,879 are we here right 71 00:04:20,030 --> 00:04:17,400 what happens after we die 72 00:04:24,409 --> 00:04:20,040 are we alone in the universe and there's 73 00:04:29,330 --> 00:04:26,930 what is the meaning of life what is it 74 00:04:31,730 --> 00:04:29,340 what's the meaning of life right what is 75 00:04:34,129 --> 00:04:31,740 life all about 76 00:04:36,230 --> 00:04:34,139 what is the purpose 77 00:04:37,990 --> 00:04:36,240 of existence 78 00:04:40,670 --> 00:04:38,000 why are we here 79 00:04:42,969 --> 00:04:40,680 what is the meaning 80 00:04:45,409 --> 00:04:42,979 of life 81 00:04:47,689 --> 00:04:45,419 and not only have there been so many 82 00:04:49,969 --> 00:04:47,699 answers and they're they're so varied 83 00:04:53,570 --> 00:04:49,979 and uh I'm gonna go through a long list 84 00:04:55,370 --> 00:04:53,580 of uh stuff tonight to make us all think 85 00:05:00,050 --> 00:04:55,380 to make us all think 86 00:05:03,110 --> 00:05:00,060 but the the answers 87 00:05:04,909 --> 00:05:03,120 have been from so many different 88 00:05:06,890 --> 00:05:04,919 individuals 89 00:05:10,010 --> 00:05:06,900 um you have the ancient Greek 90 00:05:12,830 --> 00:05:10,020 philosophers he even had the ancient 91 00:05:17,450 --> 00:05:12,840 Egyptians chiming in on this and of 92 00:05:21,590 --> 00:05:17,460 course uh throughout Asia and and you 93 00:05:24,830 --> 00:05:21,600 know Persia uh certainly here in North 94 00:05:29,029 --> 00:05:24,840 America Central America South America 95 00:05:32,210 --> 00:05:29,039 and you've got a whole variety 96 00:05:34,990 --> 00:05:32,220 of philosophical 97 00:05:36,890 --> 00:05:35,000 we're going to get into that scientific 98 00:05:39,170 --> 00:05:36,900 oh yeah 99 00:05:42,110 --> 00:05:39,180 we're gonna get into that too 100 00:05:45,950 --> 00:05:42,120 talk me some Dawkins tonight man I would 101 00:05:47,810 --> 00:05:45,960 love to sit down and and and have a chat 102 00:05:48,890 --> 00:05:47,820 with Richard Dawkins one day and opened 103 00:05:51,650 --> 00:05:48,900 his eyes 104 00:05:53,810 --> 00:05:51,660 but you have the theological side of it 105 00:05:56,749 --> 00:05:53,820 right are the Ten Commandments the 106 00:05:58,730 --> 00:05:56,759 meanings of life no not even close 107 00:06:02,029 --> 00:05:58,740 not even close 108 00:06:04,310 --> 00:06:02,039 and you have the metaphysical side 109 00:06:06,590 --> 00:06:04,320 and you have all of that speculation 110 00:06:10,310 --> 00:06:06,600 that you can handle 111 00:06:13,070 --> 00:06:10,320 all right and then there is 112 00:06:15,230 --> 00:06:13,080 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy 113 00:06:17,270 --> 00:06:15,240 that's right 114 00:06:19,790 --> 00:06:17,280 I'm not going to talk about Monty Python 115 00:06:21,830 --> 00:06:19,800 tonight and they're great film the 116 00:06:24,010 --> 00:06:21,840 meaning of life I'm gonna leave that one 117 00:06:25,969 --> 00:06:24,020 alone but I am going to talk about 118 00:06:31,490 --> 00:06:25,979 42. 119 00:06:33,110 --> 00:06:31,500 42 and when that came up uh way before 120 00:06:34,490 --> 00:06:33,120 the movie I'm talking about the book and 121 00:06:38,510 --> 00:06:34,500 I'm reading the book 122 00:06:42,110 --> 00:06:38,520 friend of mine Sean matros Sean if you 123 00:06:43,909 --> 00:06:42,120 ever listen to one of these shows uh 124 00:06:44,870 --> 00:06:43,919 you've got to reach out to me Sean 125 00:06:48,409 --> 00:06:44,880 mattress 126 00:06:52,430 --> 00:06:48,419 and it was in 10th Grade so I'm a 127 00:06:55,490 --> 00:06:52,440 sophomore I'm in high school and we took 128 00:06:57,529 --> 00:06:55,500 uh journalism together yeah yeah I took 129 00:07:00,070 --> 00:06:57,539 journalism and I wrote for the school 130 00:07:04,670 --> 00:07:00,080 paper I didn't use a column 131 00:07:06,969 --> 00:07:04,680 and Sean one day I'm kind of looking 132 00:07:09,770 --> 00:07:06,979 over her shoulder and he's 133 00:07:11,510 --> 00:07:09,780 very focused on this book I said man you 134 00:07:13,969 --> 00:07:11,520 know what you got there oh it's The 135 00:07:15,770 --> 00:07:13,979 Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy Man by 136 00:07:19,010 --> 00:07:15,780 by Doug Adams 137 00:07:21,350 --> 00:07:19,020 just the title I'm like I'm in 138 00:07:23,990 --> 00:07:21,360 he closes the book he's like I've read 139 00:07:25,969 --> 00:07:24,000 it 10 times man here you go and he hands 140 00:07:27,350 --> 00:07:25,979 it to me and I so 141 00:07:31,450 --> 00:07:27,360 you know what I'm going through and I 142 00:07:35,689 --> 00:07:31,460 get to 42 and that caught my attention 143 00:07:39,469 --> 00:07:35,699 42 is the answer to the ultimate 144 00:07:41,029 --> 00:07:39,479 question of life the universe and 145 00:07:43,969 --> 00:07:41,039 everything 146 00:07:45,950 --> 00:07:43,979 and I'm reading the line in the book I'm 147 00:07:48,409 --> 00:07:45,960 like okay here we go 148 00:07:51,770 --> 00:07:48,419 I'm gonna get the secret to life in a 149 00:07:57,010 --> 00:07:55,309 it was computed the number 42 by deep 150 00:07:59,689 --> 00:07:57,020 thought 151 00:08:03,230 --> 00:07:59,699 according to Doug Adams the second 152 00:08:09,110 --> 00:08:05,450 the descendants of Deep Thoughts 153 00:08:11,990 --> 00:08:09,120 creators are upset by the numeric nature 154 00:08:14,450 --> 00:08:12,000 of the answer in the book and not 155 00:08:16,550 --> 00:08:14,460 understanding what to do with it or or 156 00:08:19,850 --> 00:08:16,560 what to tell the people 157 00:08:22,010 --> 00:08:19,860 who are waiting right there's hundreds 158 00:08:24,650 --> 00:08:22,020 of thousands of people gathered for this 159 00:08:26,629 --> 00:08:24,660 answer and they get 42 everybody's 160 00:08:28,309 --> 00:08:26,639 perplexed everybody doesn't know what's 161 00:08:32,870 --> 00:08:28,319 really going on 162 00:08:38,029 --> 00:08:36,350 um the people had commissioned if you 163 00:08:40,510 --> 00:08:38,039 read the book 164 00:08:44,029 --> 00:08:40,520 the 7.5 165 00:08:46,730 --> 00:08:44,039 million year project that it took to 166 00:08:48,949 --> 00:08:46,740 compute the number 42 when everybody's 167 00:08:51,170 --> 00:08:48,959 waiting and you get it and and me 168 00:08:53,750 --> 00:08:51,180 reading the book that's what I got to as 169 00:08:56,090 --> 00:08:53,760 well the number 42 and a lot has been 170 00:08:58,550 --> 00:08:56,100 put into this over the years the number 171 00:08:59,690 --> 00:08:58,560 42. you know did Doug just pull that 172 00:09:03,170 --> 00:08:59,700 number out of the air was there 173 00:09:05,210 --> 00:09:03,180 something more meaningful to it 174 00:09:07,430 --> 00:09:05,220 um I don't know if we'll ever know but 175 00:09:10,250 --> 00:09:07,440 when asked to answer the ultimate 176 00:09:14,570 --> 00:09:10,260 question deep thought admits in the book 177 00:09:15,829 --> 00:09:14,580 that it is not capable of computing that 178 00:09:18,350 --> 00:09:15,839 itself 179 00:09:23,050 --> 00:09:18,360 but that it can help to design an even 180 00:09:27,889 --> 00:09:25,550 this new computer will incorporate 181 00:09:29,389 --> 00:09:27,899 living beings into the computational 182 00:09:32,990 --> 00:09:29,399 Matrix 183 00:09:34,970 --> 00:09:33,000 and will run for 10 million years 184 00:09:37,730 --> 00:09:34,980 it is 185 00:09:40,730 --> 00:09:37,740 planet Earth 186 00:09:42,530 --> 00:09:40,740 the number 42 the number 42 and did you 187 00:09:47,150 --> 00:09:42,540 ever 188 00:09:49,250 --> 00:09:47,160 you think about that enough the number 189 00:09:51,710 --> 00:09:49,260 42 did you put something into it was 190 00:09:53,509 --> 00:09:51,720 Doug just playing with this right you 191 00:09:55,490 --> 00:09:53,519 put something like that in a book it's 192 00:09:59,509 --> 00:09:55,500 the meaning of life the ultimate answer 193 00:10:00,949 --> 00:09:59,519 to everything and life right and you put 194 00:10:03,230 --> 00:10:00,959 that in the book and then you throw out 195 00:10:05,630 --> 00:10:03,240 number 42 is he just giggling in the 196 00:10:07,670 --> 00:10:05,640 background it's gonna mess with 197 00:10:08,509 --> 00:10:07,680 everybody let's see what they come up 198 00:10:10,730 --> 00:10:08,519 with 199 00:10:14,329 --> 00:10:10,740 you know that may be it 200 00:10:17,389 --> 00:10:14,339 but it also started the conversation and 201 00:10:19,310 --> 00:10:17,399 myself and my friends we would sit 202 00:10:22,190 --> 00:10:19,320 around and talk about the number 42 and 203 00:10:24,290 --> 00:10:22,200 the meaning of life and throw in a 204 00:10:27,710 --> 00:10:24,300 little Monty Python uh to boot because 205 00:10:29,090 --> 00:10:27,720 we all wonder about it 206 00:10:31,550 --> 00:10:29,100 so 207 00:10:33,530 --> 00:10:31,560 the meaning of life 208 00:10:35,750 --> 00:10:33,540 can come from a lot of different 209 00:10:37,550 --> 00:10:35,760 directions 210 00:10:41,389 --> 00:10:37,560 um from philosophical and religious 211 00:10:42,470 --> 00:10:41,399 thoughts you've got uh which gets so 212 00:10:46,250 --> 00:10:42,480 complex 213 00:10:48,470 --> 00:10:46,260 if we really get into uh the 214 00:10:50,509 --> 00:10:48,480 philosophical which we will 215 00:10:52,569 --> 00:10:50,519 and the religious side and I'm going to 216 00:10:55,009 --> 00:10:52,579 get into that just a little bit tonight 217 00:10:58,069 --> 00:10:55,019 because it does apply and it's certainly 218 00:11:01,250 --> 00:10:58,079 God applies uh to this and the meaning 219 00:11:03,410 --> 00:11:01,260 of life is God the meaning of life and 220 00:11:05,030 --> 00:11:03,420 the Bible specifically talks about that 221 00:11:08,329 --> 00:11:05,040 and we'll jump into that just a little 222 00:11:10,370 --> 00:11:08,339 bit but the scientific side of it I've 223 00:11:11,389 --> 00:11:10,380 always found really interesting to 224 00:11:15,470 --> 00:11:11,399 myself 225 00:11:19,009 --> 00:11:15,480 and if you are a religious leader 226 00:11:23,329 --> 00:11:19,019 if you are a philosopher if you are a 227 00:11:25,009 --> 00:11:23,339 scientist you need followers 228 00:11:26,389 --> 00:11:25,019 you be the greatest scientist in the 229 00:11:29,509 --> 00:11:26,399 world but if nobody's paying any 230 00:11:31,069 --> 00:11:29,519 attention to you what does it matter is 231 00:11:33,889 --> 00:11:31,079 that the meaning of life 232 00:11:36,290 --> 00:11:33,899 right getting attention is that the 233 00:11:38,569 --> 00:11:36,300 meaning of life we'll get into that too 234 00:11:41,870 --> 00:11:38,579 as well but if you're a scientist and 235 00:11:44,889 --> 00:11:41,880 you've got the most fantastic ideas and 236 00:11:48,110 --> 00:11:44,899 theories and maybe algorithms and maybe 237 00:11:51,550 --> 00:11:48,120 chemistry answers and nobody's paying 238 00:11:55,430 --> 00:11:51,560 attention to you well you need followers 239 00:11:57,350 --> 00:11:55,440 and so the scientific side of it is just 240 00:11:59,329 --> 00:11:57,360 as important as the philosophical and 241 00:12:01,910 --> 00:11:59,339 religious because 242 00:12:04,069 --> 00:12:01,920 if you are a philosopher and you don't 243 00:12:05,449 --> 00:12:04,079 have followers nobody's going to hear 244 00:12:06,590 --> 00:12:05,459 what you have to say 245 00:12:10,069 --> 00:12:06,600 all right nobody's going to pay 246 00:12:13,130 --> 00:12:10,079 attention and if you keep it simple 247 00:12:15,110 --> 00:12:13,140 you lose their interest you've got to 248 00:12:16,610 --> 00:12:15,120 dangle a carrot out there you've got to 249 00:12:17,870 --> 00:12:16,620 keep the carrot out there and the 250 00:12:20,030 --> 00:12:17,880 carrots just got to be a little bit 251 00:12:23,269 --> 00:12:20,040 farther and a little bit farther that's 252 00:12:25,670 --> 00:12:23,279 why the most difficult question in the 253 00:12:26,930 --> 00:12:25,680 world which is what is the meaning of 254 00:12:30,050 --> 00:12:26,940 life 255 00:12:33,889 --> 00:12:30,060 has to be complex it can't be simple 256 00:12:34,610 --> 00:12:33,899 it can't be one word or can it no it 257 00:12:37,269 --> 00:12:34,620 can't 258 00:12:40,670 --> 00:12:37,279 you've got to have some deep 259 00:12:44,269 --> 00:12:40,680 philosophical multi-faceted 260 00:12:47,569 --> 00:12:44,279 just complex list of things and everyone 261 00:12:50,030 --> 00:12:47,579 has a sub category and a subcategory and 262 00:12:52,970 --> 00:12:50,040 then you have to sit and discuss this 263 00:12:55,790 --> 00:12:52,980 forever with your followers and they 264 00:12:58,129 --> 00:12:55,800 never get the answer 265 00:13:00,470 --> 00:12:58,139 that's what they want 266 00:13:03,170 --> 00:13:00,480 if they just gave you a one word well 267 00:13:05,690 --> 00:13:03,180 the meaning of life is 42 then that's it 268 00:13:07,990 --> 00:13:05,700 your philosophy sessions are over aren't 269 00:13:10,610 --> 00:13:08,000 they it's the same thing with religion 270 00:13:12,769 --> 00:13:10,620 you've got to keep the carrot dangling 271 00:13:14,870 --> 00:13:12,779 out there you've got to keep it complex 272 00:13:16,970 --> 00:13:14,880 you've got to have one more Challenge 273 00:13:20,150 --> 00:13:16,980 and one more Challenge and under those 274 00:13:22,310 --> 00:13:20,160 challenges those sub challenges and 275 00:13:23,569 --> 00:13:22,320 every you've got to meet all of this 276 00:13:26,810 --> 00:13:23,579 criteria 277 00:13:29,210 --> 00:13:26,820 to get to a meaningful life 278 00:13:31,009 --> 00:13:29,220 it's the same thing with science 279 00:13:33,710 --> 00:13:31,019 scientific theories about existence 280 00:13:35,150 --> 00:13:33,720 usually focus on absolute facts of the 281 00:13:38,990 --> 00:13:35,160 universe 282 00:13:41,329 --> 00:13:39,000 that's right the chemistry about 283 00:13:42,710 --> 00:13:41,339 how life is 284 00:13:44,810 --> 00:13:42,720 right 285 00:13:46,850 --> 00:13:44,820 and that's what science says they just 286 00:13:48,650 --> 00:13:46,860 wanted black and white science and the 287 00:13:50,930 --> 00:13:48,660 big brain types that are out there 288 00:13:53,750 --> 00:13:50,940 Richard Dawkins uh you know the big 289 00:13:55,129 --> 00:13:53,760 brain types that are out there usually 290 00:13:57,470 --> 00:13:55,139 say 291 00:14:01,069 --> 00:13:57,480 that they have the answers for the 292 00:14:03,470 --> 00:14:01,079 pursuit of well-being and morality that 293 00:14:05,509 --> 00:14:03,480 it's all numbers based and it's all 294 00:14:07,610 --> 00:14:05,519 chemistry based and that's it and 295 00:14:11,569 --> 00:14:07,620 there's nothing else there and if you 296 00:14:14,329 --> 00:14:11,579 add here to the scientific method you 297 00:14:17,990 --> 00:14:14,339 will get the answer to the meaning of 298 00:14:22,730 --> 00:14:19,430 yeah 299 00:14:25,730 --> 00:14:22,740 think about it I've got examples 300 00:14:27,470 --> 00:14:25,740 you have social status is social status 301 00:14:29,690 --> 00:14:27,480 the meaning of life that's something I'm 302 00:14:32,449 --> 00:14:29,700 going to talk about a lot tonight is 303 00:14:36,769 --> 00:14:32,459 social status the meaning of life 304 00:14:39,110 --> 00:14:36,779 yeah yeah the the the meaning of life is 305 00:14:40,970 --> 00:14:39,120 a four-car garage of the swimming pool 306 00:14:44,590 --> 00:14:40,980 in the backyard 307 00:14:48,110 --> 00:14:44,600 do you know how much of this planet 308 00:14:51,410 --> 00:14:48,120 bases the meaning of life around that 309 00:14:54,769 --> 00:14:51,420 where you are taught from a very young 310 00:14:55,850 --> 00:14:54,779 age and it's drilled into you from your 311 00:14:56,990 --> 00:14:55,860 parents 312 00:15:00,230 --> 00:14:57,000 right 313 00:15:03,170 --> 00:15:00,240 you've you've got to go to school 314 00:15:05,329 --> 00:15:03,180 you've got to get good grades and then 315 00:15:06,949 --> 00:15:05,339 you will advance 316 00:15:09,170 --> 00:15:06,959 that's not enough 317 00:15:10,910 --> 00:15:09,180 right so then you get you get into 318 00:15:12,889 --> 00:15:10,920 junior high school and you get better 319 00:15:15,829 --> 00:15:12,899 grades and your goal is to get into 320 00:15:19,009 --> 00:15:15,839 college and to get better grades and and 321 00:15:20,210 --> 00:15:19,019 get a great education because after you 322 00:15:24,110 --> 00:15:20,220 graduate 323 00:15:26,090 --> 00:15:24,120 oh it's not over then you get a job and 324 00:15:29,210 --> 00:15:26,100 then you go to work 325 00:15:31,090 --> 00:15:29,220 then you get promotions and then you 326 00:15:34,850 --> 00:15:31,100 will get out of your rented apartment 327 00:15:37,970 --> 00:15:34,860 and you will buy your first house 328 00:15:40,310 --> 00:15:37,980 right your one bedroom house 329 00:15:42,530 --> 00:15:40,320 with no garage 330 00:15:44,990 --> 00:15:42,540 but you work hard 331 00:15:47,090 --> 00:15:45,000 because the meaning of life 332 00:15:48,769 --> 00:15:47,100 is to get to a two-bedroom house and you 333 00:15:51,889 --> 00:15:48,779 get to the two-bedroom house and you get 334 00:15:53,629 --> 00:15:51,899 the promotion that's not enough that's 335 00:15:56,629 --> 00:15:53,639 not the meaning of life the meaning of 336 00:16:00,110 --> 00:15:56,639 life is a four-car garage in a swimming 337 00:16:03,710 --> 00:16:00,120 pool you know three and a half kids 338 00:16:06,230 --> 00:16:03,720 a great IRA and retirement fund and then 339 00:16:08,990 --> 00:16:06,240 you grow up and you go through all of 340 00:16:10,910 --> 00:16:09,000 that and mess and you work your butt off 341 00:16:13,930 --> 00:16:10,920 and you're not thinking about anything 342 00:16:17,569 --> 00:16:13,940 else but that four bedroom 343 00:16:21,290 --> 00:16:17,579 four car garage 344 00:16:23,329 --> 00:16:21,300 swimming pool tennis court Country Club 345 00:16:26,569 --> 00:16:23,339 and when you get there you're going to 346 00:16:29,090 --> 00:16:26,579 have the answers to the meaning of life 347 00:16:31,610 --> 00:16:29,100 you're going to get the house you're 348 00:16:35,329 --> 00:16:31,620 going to retire and you're going to 349 00:16:37,790 --> 00:16:35,339 stand around in the Twilight of your 350 00:16:39,590 --> 00:16:37,800 years and go 351 00:16:42,590 --> 00:16:39,600 what's the answer 352 00:16:44,629 --> 00:16:42,600 I thought once I got here I would have 353 00:16:47,930 --> 00:16:44,639 the meaning of life 354 00:16:49,970 --> 00:16:47,940 this is all that life is about it's just 355 00:16:52,730 --> 00:16:49,980 to get to this point and then it's just 356 00:16:57,410 --> 00:16:52,740 over you missed it 357 00:17:00,710 --> 00:16:57,420 you missed it the social status side of 358 00:17:04,250 --> 00:17:00,720 this is something that is ingrained from 359 00:17:07,490 --> 00:17:04,260 birth and you get it from TV commercials 360 00:17:09,770 --> 00:17:07,500 right and you want to wear the clothes 361 00:17:11,929 --> 00:17:09,780 that everybody else is wearing in school 362 00:17:15,049 --> 00:17:11,939 you want to have the same backpack in 363 00:17:17,210 --> 00:17:15,059 the same pair of Air Jordans you know 364 00:17:18,710 --> 00:17:17,220 you just wanted that social status so 365 00:17:21,350 --> 00:17:18,720 you want to be accepted you want to be 366 00:17:23,689 --> 00:17:21,360 in groups that that is the meaning of 367 00:17:27,409 --> 00:17:23,699 life and you go through that once you 368 00:17:29,570 --> 00:17:27,419 are fixated and and you are taught this 369 00:17:32,510 --> 00:17:29,580 not only from the educational system and 370 00:17:35,210 --> 00:17:32,520 from your parents but because it is so 371 00:17:37,909 --> 00:17:35,220 ingrained and you're so focused on it 372 00:17:41,890 --> 00:17:37,919 that if somebody else suggests something 373 00:17:44,990 --> 00:17:41,900 to you that the meaning of life is this 374 00:17:49,010 --> 00:17:45,000 it absolutely cements 375 00:17:51,890 --> 00:17:49,020 your philosophy it it cements what you 376 00:17:55,190 --> 00:17:51,900 were taught no no no no no no no and it 377 00:17:59,570 --> 00:17:55,200 makes your world view more narrow and 378 00:18:03,950 --> 00:17:59,580 stronger you are just focused on a new 379 00:18:07,190 --> 00:18:03,960 handbag you're just focused on a new car 380 00:18:10,549 --> 00:18:07,200 you're just focused on a promotion 381 00:18:13,310 --> 00:18:10,559 and that four-car garage with a swimming 382 00:18:16,810 --> 00:18:13,320 pool in the back social status social 383 00:18:19,310 --> 00:18:16,820 media right and think about right now 384 00:18:22,909 --> 00:18:19,320 right now in China 385 00:18:27,110 --> 00:18:22,919 the meaning of life is to get 386 00:18:28,669 --> 00:18:27,120 a good grade on your cell phone 387 00:18:31,130 --> 00:18:28,679 so you can get into better restaurants 388 00:18:34,370 --> 00:18:31,140 maybe even get a ride on the train home 389 00:18:37,250 --> 00:18:34,380 after work all of those things that is 390 00:18:39,409 --> 00:18:37,260 social status and for so many today 391 00:18:42,110 --> 00:18:39,419 we're talking about a billion people in 392 00:18:43,909 --> 00:18:42,120 China social status is the meaning of 393 00:18:46,430 --> 00:18:43,919 life 394 00:18:48,950 --> 00:18:46,440 yeah it's crazy 395 00:18:51,590 --> 00:18:48,960 and we have Consciousness that comes 396 00:18:54,409 --> 00:18:51,600 into play a lot 397 00:18:56,210 --> 00:18:54,419 and yeah this is a big subject there's 398 00:18:58,850 --> 00:18:56,220 no doubt about that 399 00:19:01,370 --> 00:18:58,860 but understanding consciousness 400 00:19:04,549 --> 00:19:01,380 is not the meaning of life 401 00:19:07,190 --> 00:19:04,559 no no it is not 402 00:19:08,570 --> 00:19:07,200 when I when I do the big reveal in a 403 00:19:10,970 --> 00:19:08,580 little bit 404 00:19:13,549 --> 00:19:10,980 um you'll you'll agree with me now 405 00:19:17,450 --> 00:19:13,559 Consciousness great question 406 00:19:19,610 --> 00:19:17,460 it's a great question and I I try to ask 407 00:19:20,930 --> 00:19:19,620 every single guest 408 00:19:26,270 --> 00:19:20,940 what 409 00:19:28,490 --> 00:19:26,280 and there are lots of uh fundamental 410 00:19:30,409 --> 00:19:28,500 questions very basic questions that we 411 00:19:32,570 --> 00:19:30,419 need the answers to and and certainly 412 00:19:34,549 --> 00:19:32,580 Consciousness is right there but 413 00:19:37,730 --> 00:19:34,559 understanding Consciousness and somebody 414 00:19:40,370 --> 00:19:37,740 like I'll I'll say it I'll I'll just go 415 00:19:43,610 --> 00:19:40,380 right there the Dalai Lama discussing 416 00:19:46,310 --> 00:19:43,620 Consciousness with you and and what that 417 00:19:50,029 --> 00:19:46,320 is and morals is that the meaning of 418 00:19:52,190 --> 00:19:50,039 life no it it's not it's not even close 419 00:19:54,830 --> 00:19:52,200 actually 420 00:20:08,990 --> 00:19:54,840 happiness 421 00:20:11,029 --> 00:20:09,000 rectangle but a rectangle is not a 422 00:20:14,950 --> 00:20:11,039 square thing when it comes to the 423 00:20:19,909 --> 00:20:14,960 meaning of life so let me explain 424 00:20:22,370 --> 00:20:19,919 happiness comes from understanding 425 00:20:24,770 --> 00:20:22,380 what the meaning of life is 426 00:20:26,090 --> 00:20:24,780 it's not the other way around 427 00:20:28,130 --> 00:20:26,100 all right 428 00:20:31,610 --> 00:20:28,140 well sort of 429 00:20:33,830 --> 00:20:31,620 it's complex happiness is is a complex 430 00:20:34,669 --> 00:20:33,840 situation when we discuss the meaning of 431 00:20:37,990 --> 00:20:34,679 life 432 00:20:42,890 --> 00:20:38,000 all right what makes you happy 433 00:20:47,510 --> 00:20:42,900 is that the meaning of life maybe but it 434 00:20:48,890 --> 00:20:47,520 depends on what your answer is 435 00:20:50,510 --> 00:20:48,900 because I'm going to tell you what the 436 00:20:52,610 --> 00:20:50,520 meaning of life is 437 00:20:55,010 --> 00:20:52,620 and and when I tell you you can go back 438 00:20:56,690 --> 00:20:55,020 and go oh happiness so that's what he 439 00:20:59,510 --> 00:20:56,700 was talking about the square rectangle 440 00:21:01,490 --> 00:20:59,520 rectangle square oh okay that makes a 441 00:21:04,630 --> 00:21:01,500 lot of sense 442 00:21:10,070 --> 00:21:04,640 so happiness is not the meaning of life 443 00:21:12,289 --> 00:21:10,080 Bliss is not the meaning of life I've 444 00:21:15,650 --> 00:21:12,299 come close to saying that many many many 445 00:21:19,330 --> 00:21:15,660 many many times find your bliss you're 446 00:21:23,630 --> 00:21:19,340 happy right and and the reason for that 447 00:21:26,330 --> 00:21:23,640 is so many so many of you 448 00:21:28,549 --> 00:21:26,340 keep that Bliss bottled up you've put 449 00:21:31,070 --> 00:21:28,559 that thing whatever that Bliss is that 450 00:21:33,350 --> 00:21:31,080 thing that'll make you happy and it's 451 00:21:35,630 --> 00:21:33,360 difficult maybe it's even embarrassing 452 00:21:38,210 --> 00:21:35,640 to you you put it in a box you put it on 453 00:21:40,610 --> 00:21:38,220 the shelf and it just sits there and it 454 00:21:43,250 --> 00:21:40,620 simmers and and you look at that box 455 00:21:46,850 --> 00:21:43,260 you're like man one day I'm gonna do 456 00:21:49,430 --> 00:21:46,860 that one day and you wait for the break 457 00:21:51,049 --> 00:21:49,440 you wait for the timing of it and it 458 00:21:53,270 --> 00:21:51,059 just sits there on the shelf and years 459 00:21:56,090 --> 00:21:53,280 go by you don't want to be that guy 460 00:21:59,149 --> 00:21:56,100 standing in your driveway that that girl 461 00:22:02,450 --> 00:21:59,159 standing in your driveway again at your 462 00:22:04,909 --> 00:22:02,460 Twilight years and walk through your big 463 00:22:06,289 --> 00:22:04,919 house you know and your happiness and 464 00:22:07,730 --> 00:22:06,299 you look up on the shelf and see that 465 00:22:10,070 --> 00:22:07,740 box sitting there and you're like that I 466 00:22:13,850 --> 00:22:10,080 should have did that I don't have the 467 00:22:16,490 --> 00:22:13,860 time to do it now oh man you don't want 468 00:22:18,890 --> 00:22:16,500 to be that person so always pursue 469 00:22:20,570 --> 00:22:18,900 happiness always pursue your bliss it 470 00:22:22,870 --> 00:22:20,580 doesn't matter what it is 471 00:22:25,909 --> 00:22:22,880 the 472 00:22:26,810 --> 00:22:25,919 frustration that so many of us go 473 00:22:28,149 --> 00:22:26,820 through 474 00:22:31,510 --> 00:22:28,159 of of 475 00:22:34,970 --> 00:22:31,520 raising kids right going to school 476 00:22:36,289 --> 00:22:34,980 having a job doing your thing hanging 477 00:22:40,190 --> 00:22:36,299 out with friends and everything and and 478 00:22:43,190 --> 00:22:40,200 it's life is tough we we all get that 479 00:22:48,230 --> 00:22:43,200 it's not easy it's it's simply not but 480 00:22:51,350 --> 00:22:48,240 if you if you are frustrated and you 481 00:22:54,830 --> 00:22:51,360 feel that emptiness 482 00:22:59,270 --> 00:22:54,840 because you know what that Bliss is 483 00:23:01,909 --> 00:22:59,280 until you go and open up that box and 484 00:23:03,830 --> 00:23:01,919 and take a run at the Bliss 485 00:23:06,890 --> 00:23:03,840 you'll never be happy 486 00:23:08,930 --> 00:23:06,900 you won't you will always and I feel for 487 00:23:12,049 --> 00:23:08,940 people that 488 00:23:14,570 --> 00:23:12,059 um are frustrated at life whatever it is 489 00:23:16,850 --> 00:23:14,580 it it just doesn't matter you may love 490 00:23:20,450 --> 00:23:16,860 your job but you're not if you haven't 491 00:23:24,529 --> 00:23:20,460 found your bliss you don't love life 492 00:23:27,529 --> 00:23:24,539 right so for those out there that just 493 00:23:30,230 --> 00:23:27,539 don't do it I I know I know what it 494 00:23:35,029 --> 00:23:30,240 feels like inside I've changed my Bliss 495 00:23:37,250 --> 00:23:35,039 I found my Bliss today I'm a happy guy 496 00:23:39,110 --> 00:23:37,260 I'm a happy guy I'm happy 497 00:23:41,990 --> 00:23:39,120 I'm happy 498 00:23:47,990 --> 00:23:42,000 find your bliss but bliss 499 00:23:53,330 --> 00:23:51,470 coffee might be though coffee coffee 500 00:23:55,909 --> 00:23:53,340 might be 501 00:24:00,070 --> 00:23:55,919 the meaning of life 502 00:24:02,210 --> 00:24:00,080 one one step above Mexican Coke 503 00:24:03,830 --> 00:24:02,220 but it depends on your answer with 504 00:24:07,250 --> 00:24:03,840 happiness and Bliss 505 00:24:10,549 --> 00:24:07,260 depends on what your answer is all right 506 00:24:12,289 --> 00:24:10,559 I'll explain in a little bit but there's 507 00:24:13,789 --> 00:24:12,299 other issues involved 508 00:24:17,570 --> 00:24:13,799 you have 509 00:24:20,149 --> 00:24:17,580 um when the complex things that start to 510 00:24:22,270 --> 00:24:20,159 pop up like like 511 00:24:28,130 --> 00:24:22,280 um ontology 512 00:24:31,370 --> 00:24:28,140 and the which if if you if you read 513 00:24:34,370 --> 00:24:31,380 the ontology Creed right what what it 514 00:24:36,289 --> 00:24:34,380 sounds like and and you jump into that a 515 00:24:37,570 --> 00:24:36,299 little bit like I have 516 00:24:41,870 --> 00:24:37,580 ontology 517 00:24:43,490 --> 00:24:41,880 just overall overall is the science of 518 00:24:53,510 --> 00:24:43,500 being 519 00:24:55,970 --> 00:24:53,520 and at first it sounds pretty good 520 00:25:00,590 --> 00:24:55,980 pretty credible 521 00:25:01,490 --> 00:25:00,600 but ontology itself once you jump into 522 00:25:06,529 --> 00:25:01,500 it 523 00:25:12,470 --> 00:25:09,950 and I would say I don't want to any 524 00:25:14,930 --> 00:25:12,480 ontologist out there 525 00:25:17,270 --> 00:25:14,940 I'm not here to offend anybody you do 526 00:25:18,830 --> 00:25:17,280 your own thing but but it's pretty 527 00:25:21,049 --> 00:25:18,840 self-centered 528 00:25:24,590 --> 00:25:21,059 and I don't think that there's a whole 529 00:25:28,730 --> 00:25:24,600 lot of focus on others uh as well which 530 00:25:31,010 --> 00:25:28,740 when I get to my my meaning of life 531 00:25:32,769 --> 00:25:31,020 um ontology is right out it's done it's 532 00:25:34,610 --> 00:25:32,779 over it's off 533 00:25:37,789 --> 00:25:34,620 purpose 534 00:25:40,370 --> 00:25:37,799 this is a strong one 535 00:25:42,830 --> 00:25:40,380 strong one kind of like Bliss 536 00:25:46,190 --> 00:25:42,840 just got a little happiness sprinkled on 537 00:25:48,769 --> 00:25:46,200 top of it and purpose for many and I am 538 00:25:50,149 --> 00:25:48,779 talking about uh philosophers even 539 00:25:53,450 --> 00:25:50,159 scientists 540 00:25:57,049 --> 00:25:53,460 um in some cases religion 541 00:25:59,690 --> 00:25:57,059 um for many purpose to have a purpose 542 00:26:00,890 --> 00:25:59,700 the meaning of life is is to have a 543 00:26:02,630 --> 00:26:00,900 reason 544 00:26:04,130 --> 00:26:02,640 or purpose 545 00:26:06,710 --> 00:26:04,140 in life 546 00:26:07,930 --> 00:26:06,720 but that's not the meaning of life 547 00:26:12,350 --> 00:26:07,940 right 548 00:26:14,029 --> 00:26:12,360 you can uh you want to be 549 00:26:16,010 --> 00:26:14,039 you want to cure cancer in children 550 00:26:18,310 --> 00:26:16,020 right and that's your that's your that's 551 00:26:21,769 --> 00:26:18,320 your life and you spend your life doing 552 00:26:23,750 --> 00:26:21,779 fantastic great purpose great reason to 553 00:26:26,029 --> 00:26:23,760 be on this planet it's not the meaning 554 00:26:27,769 --> 00:26:26,039 to life though 555 00:26:31,430 --> 00:26:27,779 it's not even close 556 00:26:32,930 --> 00:26:31,440 right if your purpose in life that makes 557 00:26:36,730 --> 00:26:32,940 you happy 558 00:26:40,370 --> 00:26:36,740 is and I love this is making shoes 559 00:26:43,450 --> 00:26:40,380 really nice shoes really comfortable 560 00:26:46,370 --> 00:26:43,460 shoes bespoke shoes custom made shoes 561 00:26:48,890 --> 00:26:46,380 shoes that make people smile they put 562 00:26:51,830 --> 00:26:48,900 them on they're like man I have never 563 00:26:54,169 --> 00:26:51,840 had Happy Feet I am never taking these 564 00:26:57,110 --> 00:26:54,179 shoes off thank you 565 00:26:58,970 --> 00:26:57,120 that's great that's fantastic that's 566 00:26:59,930 --> 00:26:58,980 awesome it's not the meaning of life 567 00:27:02,149 --> 00:26:59,940 though 568 00:27:03,970 --> 00:27:02,159 it's not even close 569 00:27:05,810 --> 00:27:03,980 and 570 00:27:08,149 --> 00:27:05,820 to 571 00:27:10,730 --> 00:27:08,159 have purpose 572 00:27:13,310 --> 00:27:10,740 be your answer whether you're a 573 00:27:14,930 --> 00:27:13,320 philosopher you're a scientist whatever 574 00:27:18,950 --> 00:27:14,940 it is 575 00:27:21,950 --> 00:27:18,960 right Theologian if if if you use 576 00:27:26,269 --> 00:27:21,960 purpose and so many do 577 00:27:28,029 --> 00:27:26,279 you are jumping into so many complex 578 00:27:31,430 --> 00:27:28,039 situations 579 00:27:33,350 --> 00:27:31,440 that you're going to lay this out for 580 00:27:36,049 --> 00:27:33,360 for everybody and you know there's going 581 00:27:38,450 --> 00:27:36,059 to be a test later on purpose so this is 582 00:27:40,549 --> 00:27:38,460 what the and they've got to keep coming 583 00:27:43,250 --> 00:27:40,559 back and coming back and coming back and 584 00:27:45,049 --> 00:27:43,260 coming back and feeding the 585 00:27:47,870 --> 00:27:45,059 Philosopher's ego 586 00:27:51,230 --> 00:27:47,880 feeding the scientists ego 587 00:27:53,810 --> 00:27:51,240 feeding some religious Scholars ego and 588 00:27:55,310 --> 00:27:53,820 feeding the Bible's ego right the 589 00:28:04,909 --> 00:27:55,320 purpose 590 00:28:09,049 --> 00:28:04,919 obnoxious and make people think that's 591 00:28:10,550 --> 00:28:09,059 my purpose that's my job right it's a 592 00:28:13,490 --> 00:28:10,560 reason for being 593 00:28:17,029 --> 00:28:13,500 [Laughter] 594 00:28:20,210 --> 00:28:17,039 but it's not the meaning of life 595 00:28:26,630 --> 00:28:20,220 Paul Wong 596 00:28:28,610 --> 00:28:26,640 I don't know exactly what he is like a 597 00:28:31,130 --> 00:28:28,620 psychologist he's a Canadian 598 00:28:32,930 --> 00:28:31,140 psychologist Asian 599 00:28:36,669 --> 00:28:32,940 um and 600 00:28:44,710 --> 00:28:39,970 defines personal meaning 601 00:28:51,350 --> 00:28:46,549 coherence 602 00:28:58,549 --> 00:28:54,890 the pursuit and entertainment of 603 00:29:02,710 --> 00:28:58,559 worthwhile goals right purpose 604 00:29:05,330 --> 00:29:02,720 right and accompanying sense of 605 00:29:08,149 --> 00:29:05,340 fulfillment that you get from having a 606 00:29:11,269 --> 00:29:08,159 purpose and a reason 607 00:29:13,310 --> 00:29:11,279 right and and he has got I it's to me 608 00:29:17,450 --> 00:29:13,320 it's just like what a load of crap 609 00:29:20,090 --> 00:29:17,460 you know he's just trying to sound smart 610 00:29:23,690 --> 00:29:20,100 Paul Wong 611 00:29:27,289 --> 00:29:23,700 is wrong I said it 612 00:29:34,090 --> 00:29:30,350 in 2016 613 00:29:37,750 --> 00:29:34,100 Martell and Steger defined meaning 614 00:29:40,909 --> 00:29:37,760 as coherence the meaning of life right 615 00:29:43,549 --> 00:29:40,919 so they say well the meaning the in them 616 00:29:45,889 --> 00:29:43,559 the meaning of the meaning part of the 617 00:29:48,769 --> 00:29:45,899 meaning of life is coherence it's 618 00:29:50,930 --> 00:29:48,779 purpose and significance 619 00:29:52,250 --> 00:29:50,940 again it's it's just two people trying 620 00:29:55,610 --> 00:29:52,260 to sound smart 621 00:29:59,810 --> 00:29:55,620 it's two people that may be smart 622 00:30:01,789 --> 00:29:59,820 but are trying to sound smart 623 00:30:03,710 --> 00:30:01,799 and it's not a good look 624 00:30:08,330 --> 00:30:03,720 it's not it's not 625 00:30:11,450 --> 00:30:08,340 it's not that is not the meaning of life 626 00:30:15,049 --> 00:30:11,460 so check this out Wong 627 00:30:16,850 --> 00:30:15,059 Wong has a four component solution to 628 00:30:18,590 --> 00:30:16,860 the meaning of life purpose 629 00:30:21,110 --> 00:30:18,600 understanding responsibility and 630 00:30:24,230 --> 00:30:21,120 enjoyment Wong's four-point system 631 00:30:26,990 --> 00:30:24,240 guaranteed or your money back is this 632 00:30:30,590 --> 00:30:27,000 one 633 00:30:33,590 --> 00:30:30,600 you need to choose a worthy purpose or a 634 00:30:35,389 --> 00:30:33,600 significant life goal 635 00:30:36,649 --> 00:30:35,399 number two 636 00:30:40,130 --> 00:30:36,659 you need to have sufficient 637 00:30:43,370 --> 00:30:40,140 understanding of who you are of what 638 00:30:47,269 --> 00:30:43,380 life demands of you and how you can play 639 00:30:50,510 --> 00:30:47,279 a significant role in life 640 00:30:53,149 --> 00:30:50,520 three three 641 00:30:55,190 --> 00:30:53,159 you and you alone are responsible for 642 00:30:58,430 --> 00:30:55,200 deciding what kind of life you want to 643 00:31:02,450 --> 00:30:58,440 live and what constitutes a significant 644 00:31:04,610 --> 00:31:02,460 and worthwhile life goal 645 00:31:06,950 --> 00:31:04,620 four 646 00:31:09,529 --> 00:31:06,960 you will enjoy a deep sense of 647 00:31:12,529 --> 00:31:09,539 significance and satisfaction only when 648 00:31:14,990 --> 00:31:12,539 you have exercised your responsibility 649 00:31:20,149 --> 00:31:15,000 for self-determination and actively 650 00:31:21,950 --> 00:31:20,159 pursue a worthy life goal 651 00:31:28,149 --> 00:31:21,960 he's wrong 652 00:31:34,310 --> 00:31:31,850 it's a little taste of ontology 653 00:31:35,810 --> 00:31:34,320 it's a little little taste of the 654 00:31:40,190 --> 00:31:35,820 scientific method 655 00:31:43,190 --> 00:31:40,200 and again it's a way to sound smart 656 00:31:47,149 --> 00:31:43,200 and the more complex you make it 657 00:31:49,909 --> 00:31:47,159 this is the way that a doctor will think 658 00:31:52,730 --> 00:31:49,919 a philosopher will think a scientist 659 00:31:54,889 --> 00:31:52,740 will think a religious leader will think 660 00:31:56,690 --> 00:31:54,899 the more complex you make it the smarter 661 00:31:58,669 --> 00:31:56,700 I am 662 00:32:01,490 --> 00:31:58,679 I'm going to make this complex I'm just 663 00:32:03,350 --> 00:32:01,500 gonna give a little you know and and you 664 00:32:07,669 --> 00:32:03,360 go through this list 665 00:32:11,149 --> 00:32:07,679 what do you get out of any of that 666 00:32:14,690 --> 00:32:11,159 do you feel happiness in that list 667 00:32:17,149 --> 00:32:14,700 no you don't 668 00:32:20,570 --> 00:32:17,159 it is truly not the meaning of life 669 00:32:23,630 --> 00:32:20,580 and and Paul Wong smart guy but he's 670 00:32:27,169 --> 00:32:23,640 trying to sound smart he's trying to 671 00:32:31,370 --> 00:32:29,990 you know the more that you get people to 672 00:32:35,810 --> 00:32:31,380 think 673 00:32:38,330 --> 00:32:35,820 right you you throw them off the scent 674 00:32:40,970 --> 00:32:38,340 you can make it really simple you could 675 00:32:45,289 --> 00:32:40,980 probably just say one word and the the 676 00:32:49,850 --> 00:32:46,909 we have ethics 677 00:32:52,310 --> 00:32:49,860 that come into the meaning of life 678 00:32:53,750 --> 00:32:52,320 and again it's such a philosophical 679 00:32:55,730 --> 00:32:53,760 situation 680 00:32:57,409 --> 00:32:55,740 but uh and it's certainly religious 681 00:32:58,430 --> 00:32:57,419 because we have ethics like Good and 682 00:32:59,570 --> 00:32:58,440 Evil 683 00:33:02,330 --> 00:32:59,580 right 684 00:33:05,029 --> 00:33:02,340 good and evil and and and and get to you 685 00:33:06,529 --> 00:33:05,039 know don't be evil be good that is the 686 00:33:10,430 --> 00:33:06,539 meaning of life 687 00:33:14,210 --> 00:33:10,440 that's it it's it's it's polarities it's 688 00:33:17,210 --> 00:33:14,220 ones and zeros it's opposites right you 689 00:33:19,789 --> 00:33:17,220 can't go there you can only go here and 690 00:33:22,610 --> 00:33:19,799 that is the meaning of life and it's not 691 00:33:25,009 --> 00:33:22,620 it's not even close 692 00:33:28,070 --> 00:33:25,019 and in the end 693 00:33:30,950 --> 00:33:28,080 does it even matter 694 00:33:34,430 --> 00:33:30,960 you know so you get to 695 00:33:36,950 --> 00:33:34,440 you get to those Twilight years 696 00:33:38,450 --> 00:33:36,960 and you've been a good person your whole 697 00:33:41,389 --> 00:33:38,460 life 698 00:33:43,190 --> 00:33:41,399 are you gonna step back and go is 699 00:33:46,190 --> 00:33:43,200 is that it 700 00:33:48,649 --> 00:33:46,200 is that the answer I was seeking 701 00:33:51,769 --> 00:33:48,659 is that the meaning of life 702 00:33:54,830 --> 00:33:51,779 kind of feel kind of empty right now and 703 00:33:58,130 --> 00:33:54,840 it's the same thing with evil man 704 00:34:01,789 --> 00:33:58,140 be the most evilest evil is that the 705 00:34:03,950 --> 00:34:01,799 meaning of life sometimes it feels that 706 00:34:05,269 --> 00:34:03,960 way because there's so much Badness in 707 00:34:07,009 --> 00:34:05,279 the world 708 00:34:08,930 --> 00:34:07,019 right 709 00:34:13,010 --> 00:34:08,940 but 710 00:34:15,649 --> 00:34:13,020 Putin 711 00:34:20,810 --> 00:34:15,659 or Kim fatty fat 712 00:34:24,829 --> 00:34:22,730 they really do 713 00:34:29,750 --> 00:34:24,839 and when I get to what the meaning of 714 00:34:35,750 --> 00:34:32,210 free will 715 00:34:38,750 --> 00:34:35,760 making your own decisions again almost 716 00:34:40,430 --> 00:34:38,760 uh existential thought here I'm going to 717 00:34:42,349 --> 00:34:40,440 get to that too as well 718 00:34:44,329 --> 00:34:42,359 Free Will making your own decisions 719 00:34:47,089 --> 00:34:44,339 that's the meaning of life being a free 720 00:34:50,450 --> 00:34:47,099 person being free 721 00:34:53,869 --> 00:34:50,460 to make your own decisions not to have 722 00:34:55,669 --> 00:34:53,879 the man guide you right get it's almost 723 00:34:58,310 --> 00:34:55,679 Nichi 724 00:34:59,510 --> 00:34:58,320 it's nichi-esque 725 00:35:02,990 --> 00:34:59,520 right 726 00:35:05,030 --> 00:35:03,000 making your own decisions 727 00:35:08,270 --> 00:35:05,040 is that the meaning of life it is it 728 00:35:10,310 --> 00:35:08,280 simply isn't it isn't you can make your 729 00:35:12,890 --> 00:35:10,320 own decisions your whole life 730 00:35:15,829 --> 00:35:12,900 and not even be close to having the 731 00:35:18,349 --> 00:35:15,839 answer to the meaning of life be your 732 00:35:21,770 --> 00:35:18,359 own man be your own person 733 00:35:22,849 --> 00:35:21,780 right cut the umbilical cord do Your Own 734 00:35:23,990 --> 00:35:22,859 Thing 735 00:35:26,329 --> 00:35:24,000 yeah 736 00:35:28,790 --> 00:35:26,339 but it's not the meaning of life 737 00:35:32,750 --> 00:35:28,800 it's not there are so many different 738 00:35:36,710 --> 00:35:32,760 organizations and and in groups out 739 00:35:39,530 --> 00:35:36,720 there that base their 740 00:35:41,270 --> 00:35:39,540 their thought process on making your own 741 00:35:43,790 --> 00:35:41,280 decisions and and that is the meaning of 742 00:35:45,950 --> 00:35:43,800 life and that is you know the road to 743 00:35:47,690 --> 00:35:45,960 happiness and and everything else no no 744 00:35:49,730 --> 00:35:47,700 it's simply not 745 00:35:52,430 --> 00:35:49,740 Free Will is not you want to have free 746 00:35:54,109 --> 00:35:52,440 will you want to be a good person sure 747 00:35:57,050 --> 00:35:54,119 you want to have good moral character 748 00:35:59,150 --> 00:35:57,060 all of this stuff is awesome 749 00:36:01,790 --> 00:35:59,160 certainly 750 00:36:04,430 --> 00:36:01,800 but that's what you should do anyway 751 00:36:07,069 --> 00:36:04,440 that's not the meaning of life you 752 00:36:09,650 --> 00:36:07,079 should do those things 753 00:36:12,890 --> 00:36:09,660 the Ten Commandments of the Bible 754 00:36:16,329 --> 00:36:12,900 I love them that's 755 00:36:23,750 --> 00:36:19,250 you should be doing that 756 00:36:25,970 --> 00:36:23,760 but do you want do you want a cookie do 757 00:36:28,550 --> 00:36:25,980 you want some kind of gift 758 00:36:31,130 --> 00:36:28,560 right do you want a cake 759 00:36:34,150 --> 00:36:31,140 for just doing the right thing right for 760 00:36:39,170 --> 00:36:36,349 there's supposed to be some kind of 761 00:36:41,750 --> 00:36:39,180 reward at the end of the game 762 00:36:44,750 --> 00:36:41,760 now that's just a list of stuff that 763 00:36:50,030 --> 00:36:44,760 that's the right thing to do 764 00:36:53,569 --> 00:36:52,730 you get to go to the good place what do 765 00:36:55,069 --> 00:36:53,579 you mean 766 00:36:56,450 --> 00:36:55,079 should be going there anyway I'm gonna 767 00:36:58,670 --> 00:36:56,460 do this stuff anyway what are you 768 00:37:00,720 --> 00:36:58,680 talking about 769 00:37:02,030 --> 00:37:00,730 in 2014 770 00:37:04,190 --> 00:37:02,040 [Music] 771 00:37:08,750 --> 00:37:04,200 the British National Health Service 772 00:37:12,589 --> 00:37:08,760 began recommending a five-step plan 773 00:37:15,349 --> 00:37:12,599 for well-being based on meaningful lives 774 00:37:16,790 --> 00:37:15,359 the meaning of life 775 00:37:21,050 --> 00:37:16,800 that's right 776 00:37:25,010 --> 00:37:21,060 and those five steps are this 777 00:37:28,670 --> 00:37:25,020 one connect with community and family 778 00:37:32,750 --> 00:37:28,680 two physical exercise 779 00:37:36,230 --> 00:37:32,760 three life long learning 780 00:37:41,150 --> 00:37:36,240 four giving to others 781 00:37:43,910 --> 00:37:41,160 five mindfulness of the world around you 782 00:37:47,750 --> 00:37:43,920 that's 2014. that's recent history that 783 00:37:50,990 --> 00:37:47,760 is the British National Health Service 784 00:37:52,849 --> 00:37:51,000 the meaning of life 785 00:37:54,170 --> 00:37:52,859 I should almost read all five of those 786 00:37:56,270 --> 00:37:54,180 again shouldn't I 787 00:37:57,349 --> 00:37:56,280 the meaning of that's not the meaning of 788 00:38:00,650 --> 00:37:57,359 life 789 00:38:02,870 --> 00:38:00,660 that's just stuff you're supposed to do 790 00:38:04,490 --> 00:38:02,880 see it it's just stuff you're supposed 791 00:38:07,250 --> 00:38:04,500 to do 792 00:38:08,390 --> 00:38:07,260 now if we start to break this down even 793 00:38:10,190 --> 00:38:08,400 further 794 00:38:12,890 --> 00:38:10,200 with the different groups out there I'm 795 00:38:14,750 --> 00:38:12,900 not getting into Socrates and Aristotle 796 00:38:16,849 --> 00:38:14,760 and Greek philosophy I'm not going to 797 00:38:19,010 --> 00:38:16,859 get Egyptian philosophy and World 798 00:38:20,450 --> 00:38:19,020 philosophy I'm not going to get into any 799 00:38:23,390 --> 00:38:20,460 of that 800 00:38:25,849 --> 00:38:23,400 that's for another show 801 00:38:27,650 --> 00:38:25,859 um but but I'll say this when it comes 802 00:38:32,030 --> 00:38:27,660 to 803 00:38:34,310 --> 00:38:32,040 um some of the uh philosophical 804 00:38:37,010 --> 00:38:34,320 sided things 805 00:38:40,870 --> 00:38:37,020 I think it's all in general terms 806 00:38:42,490 --> 00:38:40,880 but if you go and you read through 807 00:38:48,470 --> 00:38:42,500 complex 808 00:38:51,109 --> 00:38:48,480 from the ancient philosophers on the 809 00:38:53,150 --> 00:38:51,119 meaning of life it's insane 810 00:38:54,650 --> 00:38:53,160 it's absolutely I gotta do all of this I 811 00:38:57,349 --> 00:38:54,660 got to think about this I need to 812 00:39:00,050 --> 00:38:57,359 discuss this it'll take up my my entire 813 00:39:01,490 --> 00:39:00,060 life before I I take a step forward I've 814 00:39:04,430 --> 00:39:01,500 got to go through all I've got to 815 00:39:07,430 --> 00:39:04,440 discuss this you're going to teach me 816 00:39:09,050 --> 00:39:07,440 all of this and for what in the end my 817 00:39:10,790 --> 00:39:09,060 life will be over by the time I get 818 00:39:12,230 --> 00:39:10,800 through that list 819 00:39:14,630 --> 00:39:12,240 it's crazy 820 00:39:17,650 --> 00:39:14,640 but check this out 821 00:39:24,310 --> 00:39:20,930 legalism it's a thing 822 00:39:28,150 --> 00:39:24,320 legalism the legalists 823 00:39:31,370 --> 00:39:28,160 believe that finding the purpose of life 824 00:39:36,170 --> 00:39:31,380 was a meaningless effort 825 00:39:41,569 --> 00:39:38,690 oh man Fade to Black will never be heard 826 00:39:43,730 --> 00:39:41,579 in China after tonight's show to the 827 00:39:46,010 --> 00:39:43,740 legalists there's reasons for that look 828 00:39:48,290 --> 00:39:46,020 it up 829 00:39:51,230 --> 00:39:48,300 to the legalists only practical 830 00:39:53,750 --> 00:39:51,240 knowledge is valuable 831 00:39:55,430 --> 00:39:53,760 everything else doesn't matter 832 00:40:02,810 --> 00:39:55,440 your dog 833 00:40:08,510 --> 00:40:05,530 your children 834 00:40:12,170 --> 00:40:08,520 relationships spirituality 835 00:40:14,089 --> 00:40:12,180 anything that makes you happy 836 00:40:15,950 --> 00:40:14,099 is meaningless 837 00:40:17,210 --> 00:40:15,960 to legalists 838 00:40:26,870 --> 00:40:17,220 yeah 839 00:40:32,569 --> 00:40:30,170 Confucius says quote 840 00:40:33,470 --> 00:40:32,579 we can realize the ultimate meaning of 841 00:40:38,810 --> 00:40:33,480 life 842 00:40:40,370 --> 00:40:38,820 in ordinary human existence end quote 843 00:40:45,170 --> 00:40:40,380 that's it 844 00:40:47,569 --> 00:40:45,180 nothing special 845 00:40:51,170 --> 00:40:47,579 and it's it's crazy when you jump into 846 00:40:54,050 --> 00:40:51,180 it now uh I I get that there are other 847 00:40:55,910 --> 00:40:54,060 views and other takes on this but I am 848 00:40:58,430 --> 00:40:55,920 telling you right now confucianist 849 00:41:00,410 --> 00:40:58,440 scholar Tu Wang Ming 850 00:41:02,930 --> 00:41:00,420 wrote in his book 851 00:41:04,730 --> 00:41:02,940 quote we can realize the ultimate 852 00:41:07,310 --> 00:41:04,740 meaning of life in ordinary human 853 00:41:09,770 --> 00:41:07,320 existence end quote that is cold 854 00:41:11,990 --> 00:41:09,780 that is cold and is that the meaning of 855 00:41:14,450 --> 00:41:12,000 life truly it is not 856 00:41:16,370 --> 00:41:14,460 you know but as long as you know 857 00:41:18,950 --> 00:41:16,380 especially you know if you're legal is 858 00:41:22,130 --> 00:41:18,960 Confucianism 859 00:41:25,849 --> 00:41:22,140 um yeah keep it complex like that like 860 00:41:27,650 --> 00:41:25,859 totally confuse everybody you got to 861 00:41:29,690 --> 00:41:27,660 keep them coming back you got to dangle 862 00:41:32,450 --> 00:41:29,700 that carrot 863 00:41:36,109 --> 00:41:32,460 about embodied cognition 864 00:41:39,829 --> 00:41:36,119 embody cognition uses the neurological 865 00:41:43,609 --> 00:41:39,839 basis of emotion of speech and cognition 866 00:41:45,170 --> 00:41:43,619 the brain to understand nature of 867 00:41:48,470 --> 00:41:45,180 thought 868 00:41:50,810 --> 00:41:48,480 you see that belief system of the 869 00:41:54,349 --> 00:41:50,820 scientists is that once we understand 870 00:41:57,170 --> 00:41:54,359 the brain a sound personal assessment as 871 00:41:58,670 --> 00:41:57,180 to the meaning of one's life should be 872 00:42:02,630 --> 00:41:58,680 straightforward 873 00:42:03,950 --> 00:42:02,640 ones and zeros man it's just math just 874 00:42:06,230 --> 00:42:03,960 chemistry 875 00:42:08,450 --> 00:42:06,240 that's it so once we understand the 876 00:42:12,589 --> 00:42:08,460 brain once we understand how the brain 877 00:42:15,829 --> 00:42:12,599 works how it connects how it does its 878 00:42:17,750 --> 00:42:15,839 job we will have the meaning of life 879 00:42:20,569 --> 00:42:17,760 that's right 880 00:42:22,670 --> 00:42:20,579 that's I that's that's Richard Dawkins 881 00:42:23,930 --> 00:42:22,680 that's what he thinks that's what he 882 00:42:25,370 --> 00:42:23,940 believes well I don't know if it's what 883 00:42:28,790 --> 00:42:25,380 he believes 884 00:42:30,890 --> 00:42:28,800 but it's what he says and you got to 885 00:42:32,810 --> 00:42:30,900 take a little carrot out there he's got 886 00:42:34,490 --> 00:42:32,820 back to my point 887 00:42:36,050 --> 00:42:34,500 he's got a lot of followers I'm not 888 00:42:37,670 --> 00:42:36,060 talking about him specifically but 889 00:42:39,290 --> 00:42:37,680 everybody around him that has this 890 00:42:41,569 --> 00:42:39,300 thought process 891 00:42:45,530 --> 00:42:41,579 he's not the only leader that that 892 00:42:49,089 --> 00:42:45,540 speaks like this he's not and you've got 893 00:42:52,730 --> 00:42:49,099 to have that that atheist 894 00:42:54,410 --> 00:42:52,740 ones and zero black and white scientific 895 00:42:56,750 --> 00:42:54,420 method be the basis of everything 896 00:42:59,750 --> 00:42:56,760 nothing else matters 897 00:43:02,030 --> 00:42:59,760 that's it so if you're gonna have that 898 00:43:04,550 --> 00:43:02,040 and it's religious by the way if you're 899 00:43:08,030 --> 00:43:04,560 gonna have that 900 00:43:09,470 --> 00:43:08,040 The Only Way Forward is one general 901 00:43:12,770 --> 00:43:09,480 statement 902 00:43:15,530 --> 00:43:12,780 we figure out the brain the science of 903 00:43:18,950 --> 00:43:15,540 the brain we figure out the meaning of 904 00:43:25,490 --> 00:43:21,370 it's crazy isn't it 905 00:43:32,349 --> 00:43:28,270 now according to naturalistic pantheism 906 00:43:37,370 --> 00:43:32,359 the meaning of life is to care and look 907 00:43:39,170 --> 00:43:37,380 after nature and the environment 908 00:43:41,750 --> 00:43:39,180 that 909 00:43:45,950 --> 00:43:41,760 is the meaning of life 910 00:43:48,349 --> 00:43:45,960 no I would I would uh 911 00:43:49,790 --> 00:43:48,359 I would argue 912 00:43:51,770 --> 00:43:49,800 that that is something you're just 913 00:43:54,050 --> 00:43:51,780 supposed to do 914 00:43:56,089 --> 00:43:54,060 that's it that's just something you're 915 00:43:58,730 --> 00:43:56,099 supposed to do 916 00:44:00,410 --> 00:43:58,740 it's not the meaning of life that's just 917 00:44:02,750 --> 00:44:00,420 living a good life 918 00:44:04,970 --> 00:44:02,760 doing the right thing 919 00:44:07,550 --> 00:44:04,980 but it's not the meaning of life no it's 920 00:44:12,170 --> 00:44:07,560 not even close but what about what about 921 00:44:18,470 --> 00:44:15,109 yeah I said it 922 00:44:24,849 --> 00:44:18,480 I said it post-modernism 923 00:44:29,349 --> 00:44:26,410 anything 924 00:44:31,849 --> 00:44:29,359 resembling a meaning of life in a 925 00:44:34,250 --> 00:44:31,859 post-modernist term 926 00:44:36,829 --> 00:44:34,260 can only be understood within a social 927 00:44:39,470 --> 00:44:36,839 and linguistic framework 928 00:44:41,750 --> 00:44:39,480 and it must be pursued as an escape from 929 00:44:44,329 --> 00:44:41,760 the power structures that are already 930 00:44:46,130 --> 00:44:44,339 embedded in all forms of speech and 931 00:44:48,050 --> 00:44:46,140 interaction 932 00:44:51,050 --> 00:44:48,060 yeah 933 00:44:52,730 --> 00:44:51,060 it's kind of like free will 934 00:44:54,170 --> 00:44:52,740 right 935 00:44:57,589 --> 00:44:54,180 you know and you have you know 936 00:44:59,109 --> 00:44:57,599 determinism right free will 937 00:45:02,510 --> 00:44:59,119 all right 938 00:45:04,970 --> 00:45:02,520 not having the man above you or around 939 00:45:07,690 --> 00:45:04,980 you and that kind of structure that kind 940 00:45:11,510 --> 00:45:07,700 of framework and getting rid of it 941 00:45:14,750 --> 00:45:11,520 because it is everywhere 942 00:45:16,069 --> 00:45:14,760 it's everywhere it's who you talk to 943 00:45:19,250 --> 00:45:16,079 right 944 00:45:23,089 --> 00:45:19,260 it's it it's everything 945 00:45:25,790 --> 00:45:23,099 that's crazy to me it's very cold 946 00:45:26,690 --> 00:45:25,800 and and to think that somebody is going 947 00:45:28,970 --> 00:45:26,700 to 948 00:45:30,890 --> 00:45:28,980 you know look at me and say that you 949 00:45:34,130 --> 00:45:30,900 know the meaning of life 950 00:45:35,990 --> 00:45:34,140 is not having anybody control and you 951 00:45:37,309 --> 00:45:36,000 need to get rid of it we need to burn 952 00:45:40,609 --> 00:45:37,319 this thing down 953 00:45:45,650 --> 00:45:40,619 that's crazy to me 954 00:45:50,990 --> 00:45:48,770 now logical positivists 955 00:45:54,589 --> 00:45:51,000 they ask quote 956 00:45:57,349 --> 00:45:54,599 what is the meaning of life 957 00:45:59,390 --> 00:45:57,359 and then of course 958 00:46:04,010 --> 00:45:59,400 quote 959 00:46:07,190 --> 00:46:04,020 what is the meaning in asking 960 00:46:09,770 --> 00:46:07,200 why would you do that what's the purpose 961 00:46:11,510 --> 00:46:09,780 of asking that question what is the 962 00:46:13,849 --> 00:46:11,520 meaning in asking the question in the 963 00:46:17,450 --> 00:46:13,859 first place 964 00:46:22,790 --> 00:46:20,210 they come back with 965 00:46:25,010 --> 00:46:22,800 you say you have to you you break it 966 00:46:26,630 --> 00:46:25,020 down and the reason why they're trying 967 00:46:28,490 --> 00:46:26,640 to be logical about this and they're 968 00:46:30,890 --> 00:46:28,500 trying to make the question like a math 969 00:46:32,870 --> 00:46:30,900 equation right what is the meaning of 970 00:46:35,750 --> 00:46:32,880 life well what is life so you make life 971 00:46:39,170 --> 00:46:35,760 X so what is the meaning of X and if you 972 00:46:41,630 --> 00:46:39,180 can't label that if you can have uh 973 00:46:44,030 --> 00:46:41,640 objectives there and if you can't Define 974 00:46:46,490 --> 00:46:44,040 what life is therefore life is nothing 975 00:46:49,370 --> 00:46:46,500 so you're asking about the meaning of 976 00:46:52,270 --> 00:46:49,380 nothing so what is the meaning of asking 977 00:46:56,990 --> 00:46:52,280 about nothing because if there are no 978 00:46:58,609 --> 00:46:57,000 objective values to X then life is 979 00:47:04,370 --> 00:46:58,619 meaningless 980 00:47:13,010 --> 00:47:07,790 secular humanism 981 00:47:14,690 --> 00:47:13,020 give you a quote here quote secular 982 00:47:17,690 --> 00:47:14,700 humanism 983 00:47:20,870 --> 00:47:17,700 it is the human personality that is the 984 00:47:24,109 --> 00:47:20,880 purpose of human beings life which 985 00:47:26,470 --> 00:47:24,119 humanism seeks to develop and fulfill 986 00:47:28,430 --> 00:47:26,480 the question of the meaning of life 987 00:47:33,470 --> 00:47:28,440 should be 988 00:47:34,970 --> 00:47:33,480 quote what is the meaning of my life 989 00:47:38,050 --> 00:47:34,980 end quote 990 00:47:42,470 --> 00:47:38,060 see now by by doing that 991 00:47:45,370 --> 00:47:42,480 once again make it complex 992 00:47:48,950 --> 00:47:45,380 don't make it simple don't make it 42. 993 00:47:50,210 --> 00:47:48,960 jump right there and make it complex and 994 00:47:52,309 --> 00:47:50,220 force somebody 995 00:47:53,750 --> 00:47:52,319 to just go wait a minute the question is 996 00:47:56,089 --> 00:47:53,760 about myself 997 00:47:58,190 --> 00:47:56,099 what is the meaning of my life man I 998 00:48:00,770 --> 00:47:58,200 need the meaning of life oh man that's 999 00:48:02,870 --> 00:48:00,780 the that's what I need to do here there 1000 00:48:04,670 --> 00:48:02,880 isn't anything General that you can give 1001 00:48:07,309 --> 00:48:04,680 me something that I can think about 1002 00:48:09,890 --> 00:48:07,319 something that I can pursue right I'm 1003 00:48:17,410 --> 00:48:09,900 supposed to just sit back and think 1004 00:48:20,390 --> 00:48:19,130 existentialism 1005 00:48:24,589 --> 00:48:20,400 yeah 1006 00:48:28,490 --> 00:48:25,849 coffee 1007 00:48:31,390 --> 00:48:28,500 the meaning of life 1008 00:48:33,970 --> 00:48:31,400 I think that's my new commercial 1009 00:48:37,970 --> 00:48:33,980 existentialism according to 1010 00:48:42,470 --> 00:48:37,980 existentialism each person creates the 1011 00:48:45,290 --> 00:48:42,480 meaning of their own life there we go 1012 00:48:50,510 --> 00:48:45,300 life is not determined by a supernatural 1013 00:48:54,890 --> 00:48:50,520 God or another human being now 1014 00:49:00,589 --> 00:48:57,950 I'm gonna argue that all day long 1015 00:49:02,569 --> 00:49:00,599 how I mean how how can that even be a 1016 00:49:08,450 --> 00:49:02,579 possibility 1017 00:49:10,550 --> 00:49:08,460 right now a supernatural God oh man you 1018 00:49:13,190 --> 00:49:10,560 know so whether we are talking about 1019 00:49:14,150 --> 00:49:13,200 some fundamental Foundation of a 1020 00:49:16,910 --> 00:49:14,160 religion 1021 00:49:19,430 --> 00:49:16,920 Christianity Islam whatever you want to 1022 00:49:21,410 --> 00:49:19,440 uh Hinduism whatever whatever you want 1023 00:49:23,569 --> 00:49:21,420 to just put a label on you know 1024 00:49:26,270 --> 00:49:23,579 something like that a supernatural guy 1025 00:49:27,829 --> 00:49:26,280 that that's that time do your thing if 1026 00:49:31,490 --> 00:49:27,839 that's what you want to do go and do it 1027 00:49:36,470 --> 00:49:31,500 I have no issues with it I really don't 1028 00:49:38,569 --> 00:49:36,480 um but uh on the surface the the ideals 1029 00:49:40,010 --> 00:49:38,579 behind it you know live a good life you 1030 00:49:42,470 --> 00:49:40,020 know okay all right 1031 00:49:44,990 --> 00:49:42,480 but 1032 00:49:47,150 --> 00:49:45,000 there is something I think underlying to 1033 00:49:50,390 --> 00:49:47,160 all of this when it comes to the meaning 1034 00:49:52,069 --> 00:49:50,400 of life and I think it is Supernatural 1035 00:49:54,230 --> 00:49:52,079 I do 1036 00:49:56,930 --> 00:49:54,240 and I'll tell you after the break 1037 00:50:00,770 --> 00:49:56,940 but another human being 1038 00:50:03,290 --> 00:50:00,780 that that cannot be the meaning of life 1039 00:50:08,210 --> 00:50:03,300 that is something that can be argued 1040 00:50:14,329 --> 00:50:10,849 theism 1041 00:50:16,630 --> 00:50:14,339 theists hold the world view that humans 1042 00:50:21,950 --> 00:50:16,640 find their meaning and purpose for life 1043 00:50:25,069 --> 00:50:23,990 that that is the meaning of life right 1044 00:50:27,550 --> 00:50:25,079 there 1045 00:50:31,069 --> 00:50:27,560 the meaning of life 1046 00:50:34,309 --> 00:50:31,079 is why did God 1047 00:50:36,770 --> 00:50:34,319 create us 1048 00:50:39,230 --> 00:50:36,780 created the universe so that's that's 1049 00:50:41,150 --> 00:50:39,240 that's that's that's it that's your 1050 00:50:44,510 --> 00:50:41,160 life's journey that's the meaning of 1051 00:50:46,910 --> 00:50:44,520 life right there and that that is not 1052 00:50:48,290 --> 00:50:46,920 the meaning of life that's that's a 1053 00:50:51,950 --> 00:50:48,300 purpose 1054 00:50:54,170 --> 00:50:51,960 what you want to do and you want to 1055 00:50:56,450 --> 00:50:54,180 pursue that great 1056 00:50:59,870 --> 00:50:56,460 that's not the meaning of life 1057 00:51:04,089 --> 00:51:01,970 pragmatism 1058 00:51:06,950 --> 00:51:04,099 hmm 1059 00:51:09,349 --> 00:51:06,960 pragmatic philosophers say that 1060 00:51:13,130 --> 00:51:09,359 practical useful understanding of life 1061 00:51:19,370 --> 00:51:13,140 is more important than searching for an 1062 00:51:22,069 --> 00:51:20,990 you see that's exactly what I'm talking 1063 00:51:23,809 --> 00:51:22,079 about 1064 00:51:26,329 --> 00:51:23,819 right there 1065 00:51:27,950 --> 00:51:26,339 make it complex 1066 00:51:32,150 --> 00:51:27,960 make it something that you can't even 1067 00:51:37,370 --> 00:51:34,430 think about that a useful understanding 1068 00:51:41,690 --> 00:51:37,380 of life is more important than searching 1069 00:51:43,670 --> 00:51:41,700 for an impractical abstract truth 1070 00:51:46,370 --> 00:51:43,680 about life 1071 00:51:49,010 --> 00:51:46,380 I mean that just opens the door to 1072 00:51:51,589 --> 00:51:49,020 mountains of discussion years of 1073 00:51:53,750 --> 00:51:51,599 discussion without getting to the end or 1074 00:51:56,569 --> 00:51:53,760 the answer of anything 1075 00:51:58,490 --> 00:51:56,579 that's what philosophers do 1076 00:52:01,250 --> 00:51:58,500 that's what religions do 1077 00:52:06,410 --> 00:52:01,260 right and it's not the meaning of life 1078 00:52:13,210 --> 00:52:08,930 all right 1079 00:52:18,349 --> 00:52:16,730 ah yeah throwing a little Nietzsche 1080 00:52:22,190 --> 00:52:18,359 again 1081 00:52:27,170 --> 00:52:25,430 nihilism suggests 1082 00:52:34,130 --> 00:52:27,180 that life 1083 00:52:39,250 --> 00:52:35,990 life has no meaning 1084 00:52:43,130 --> 00:52:39,260 that God is dead 1085 00:52:48,829 --> 00:52:43,140 that emptying the world and especially 1086 00:52:56,089 --> 00:52:52,250 it's crazy emptying the world of purpose 1087 00:52:59,270 --> 00:52:56,099 emptying the world of Truth emptying the 1088 00:53:02,150 --> 00:52:59,280 world of essential values 1089 00:53:03,589 --> 00:53:02,160 right after that after you you go you do 1090 00:53:06,109 --> 00:53:03,599 all of that 1091 00:53:07,910 --> 00:53:06,119 all of existence all of these 1092 00:53:10,910 --> 00:53:07,920 intangibles right 1093 00:53:12,589 --> 00:53:10,920 that after that you'll have the meaning 1094 00:53:14,690 --> 00:53:12,599 of life 1095 00:53:16,790 --> 00:53:14,700 when your head is clear we need to have 1096 00:53:18,290 --> 00:53:16,800 to think about any of that stuff where 1097 00:53:22,609 --> 00:53:18,300 you don't have to think of meaning and 1098 00:53:25,309 --> 00:53:22,619 purpose and and uh truth and values and 1099 00:53:28,549 --> 00:53:25,319 morals I mean you get rid of all of that 1100 00:53:31,430 --> 00:53:28,559 your head is clear 1101 00:53:33,950 --> 00:53:31,440 you'll find out that the meaning of life 1102 00:53:36,530 --> 00:53:33,960 is a four-car garage 1103 00:53:38,510 --> 00:53:36,540 that's really clean 1104 00:53:42,230 --> 00:53:38,520 and nice 1105 00:53:45,190 --> 00:53:42,240 I had a friend I had a roommate 1106 00:53:48,970 --> 00:53:45,200 smart guy too real smart guy 1107 00:53:53,510 --> 00:53:48,980 and this was in uh the 80s 1108 00:53:55,790 --> 00:53:53,520 and he takes me over to this guy's 1109 00:53:59,150 --> 00:53:55,800 really smart too takes me over to his 1110 00:54:00,010 --> 00:53:59,160 dad's house and he's house hitting his 1111 00:54:03,650 --> 00:54:00,020 dad 1112 00:54:05,150 --> 00:54:03,660 is like on some kind of World Tour for 1113 00:54:06,710 --> 00:54:05,160 three months he's seeing the world he's 1114 00:54:08,270 --> 00:54:06,720 got all these different countries and 1115 00:54:10,970 --> 00:54:08,280 stuff and 1116 00:54:12,770 --> 00:54:10,980 and uh I think his dad was like an 1117 00:54:14,990 --> 00:54:12,780 architect 1118 00:54:16,370 --> 00:54:15,000 if I remember correctly an engineer of 1119 00:54:18,530 --> 00:54:16,380 some kind of architect 1120 00:54:21,309 --> 00:54:18,540 you go to his house 1121 00:54:25,809 --> 00:54:21,319 and uh nice place 1122 00:54:29,809 --> 00:54:25,819 mid-century modern clean 1123 00:54:32,329 --> 00:54:29,819 and you know going through like man is 1124 00:54:35,510 --> 00:54:32,339 he married no okay 1125 00:54:37,069 --> 00:54:35,520 this place is like organized it's nice 1126 00:54:39,049 --> 00:54:37,079 it was a nice place 1127 00:54:41,569 --> 00:54:39,059 kind of dug it actually 1128 00:54:44,089 --> 00:54:41,579 and uh we were going over because he had 1129 00:54:46,430 --> 00:54:44,099 a really nice swimming pool and uh it 1130 00:54:48,109 --> 00:54:46,440 was a hot summer day so we were uh which 1131 00:54:51,109 --> 00:54:48,119 we did this a few times 1132 00:54:53,930 --> 00:54:51,119 and this is what happened so I'm you 1133 00:54:56,450 --> 00:54:53,940 know and and I'm absorbing I'm digging 1134 00:54:59,210 --> 00:54:56,460 the house digging it man 1135 00:55:02,390 --> 00:54:59,220 kind of like a Dean Martin Frank Sinatra 1136 00:55:05,450 --> 00:55:02,400 Palm Springs kind of vibe going on and 1137 00:55:07,430 --> 00:55:05,460 and it was 1138 00:55:10,010 --> 00:55:07,440 it was nice 1139 00:55:15,530 --> 00:55:10,020 so I go in the living room 1140 00:55:17,510 --> 00:55:15,540 and I sit down on the couch and on the I 1141 00:55:19,549 --> 00:55:17,520 can't remember which one it was but on 1142 00:55:20,750 --> 00:55:19,559 the coffee table stack of books and top 1143 00:55:23,030 --> 00:55:20,760 book is 1144 00:55:27,890 --> 00:55:23,040 is Nietzsche 1145 00:55:30,290 --> 00:55:27,900 okay heard of Nietzsche I was 21 at the 1146 00:55:32,690 --> 00:55:30,300 time 22 21. 1147 00:55:37,809 --> 00:55:32,700 what's that oh man hey you know my dad 1148 00:55:42,890 --> 00:55:40,970 who's Nichi and he says well you know my 1149 00:55:44,150 --> 00:55:42,900 dad 1150 00:55:46,849 --> 00:55:44,160 um 1151 00:55:47,990 --> 00:55:46,859 my dad doesn't believe in anything I 1152 00:55:50,510 --> 00:55:48,000 said what do you mean 1153 00:55:52,190 --> 00:55:50,520 and anything 1154 00:55:55,069 --> 00:55:52,200 religion 1155 00:55:57,950 --> 00:55:55,079 life after death 1156 00:55:59,829 --> 00:55:57,960 ghosts I said what 1157 00:56:05,329 --> 00:55:59,839 do you mean 1158 00:56:05,339 --> 00:56:09,650 that life is just this 1159 00:56:13,490 --> 00:56:11,750 I said okay now I don't want to say 1160 00:56:16,970 --> 00:56:13,500 anything further because I don't want to 1161 00:56:19,910 --> 00:56:16,980 expose who this who this person was uh 1162 00:56:22,190 --> 00:56:19,920 or or his father but he said a couple of 1163 00:56:25,910 --> 00:56:22,200 very very specific things 1164 00:56:28,370 --> 00:56:25,920 and I I stepped back 1165 00:56:32,450 --> 00:56:28,380 and looked around the house 1166 00:56:35,510 --> 00:56:32,460 and I didn't dig it anymore 1167 00:56:37,910 --> 00:56:35,520 that this is how somebody lives because 1168 00:56:40,670 --> 00:56:37,920 I was I was digging the house 1169 00:56:47,089 --> 00:56:43,190 he says to me 1170 00:56:49,250 --> 00:56:47,099 that my father believes 1171 00:56:52,490 --> 00:56:49,260 in things 1172 00:56:57,950 --> 00:56:55,670 having a nice car having a nice house 1173 00:57:00,109 --> 00:56:57,960 this is why we are here 1174 00:57:02,630 --> 00:57:00,119 having a great job 1175 00:57:04,670 --> 00:57:02,640 that's that's his religion 1176 00:57:06,349 --> 00:57:04,680 he said that's his religion that's a 1177 00:57:09,530 --> 00:57:06,359 religion 1178 00:57:11,750 --> 00:57:09,540 and I wasn't digging it it scared me it 1179 00:57:14,750 --> 00:57:11,760 freaked me out 1180 00:57:16,970 --> 00:57:14,760 and I never met his father I had a few 1181 00:57:18,309 --> 00:57:16,980 opportunities to I didn't I didn't want 1182 00:57:22,130 --> 00:57:18,319 to meet somebody 1183 00:57:26,210 --> 00:57:22,140 that lived like that now as I went 1184 00:57:28,730 --> 00:57:26,220 through life I found this time and time 1185 00:57:31,069 --> 00:57:28,740 and time again 1186 00:57:31,910 --> 00:57:31,079 and I don't understand that that world 1187 00:57:34,430 --> 00:57:31,920 view 1188 00:57:36,950 --> 00:57:34,440 how can that 1189 00:57:40,190 --> 00:57:36,960 be the meaning of life what it what is 1190 00:57:43,370 --> 00:57:40,200 your goal while you are here what is 1191 00:57:45,890 --> 00:57:43,380 truly your goal 1192 00:57:48,829 --> 00:57:45,900 right but is it is it really just 1193 00:57:50,809 --> 00:57:48,839 material things and not to care about 1194 00:57:53,390 --> 00:57:50,819 others or anything else and to live this 1195 00:57:54,530 --> 00:57:53,400 self-centered existence 1196 00:58:01,670 --> 00:57:54,540 right 1197 00:58:03,290 --> 00:58:01,680 maybe maybe you're not mean okay all 1198 00:58:05,329 --> 00:58:03,300 right that that doesn't that doesn't 1199 00:58:07,309 --> 00:58:05,339 balance it out 1200 00:58:09,470 --> 00:58:07,319 it certainly doesn't and I I don't 1201 00:58:12,710 --> 00:58:09,480 understand that lifestyle 1202 00:58:15,170 --> 00:58:12,720 I don't the house freaked me out after 1203 00:58:18,049 --> 00:58:15,180 that the pool freaked me out the diving 1204 00:58:20,450 --> 00:58:18,059 board freaked me out the garage 1205 00:58:23,150 --> 00:58:20,460 freaked me out 1206 00:58:25,309 --> 00:58:23,160 never seen anything like it 1207 00:58:27,170 --> 00:58:25,319 it was kind of cool 1208 00:58:29,390 --> 00:58:27,180 all right I'm going to take a quick 1209 00:58:31,069 --> 00:58:29,400 break 1210 00:58:33,049 --> 00:58:31,079 perfect timing 1211 00:58:34,069 --> 00:58:33,059 because when we come back after this 1212 00:58:37,069 --> 00:58:34,079 break 1213 00:58:40,849 --> 00:58:37,079 I will give you 1214 00:58:43,190 --> 00:58:40,859 my meaning of life we're gonna do all of 1215 00:58:48,589 --> 00:58:43,200 that when we come back stay with us 1216 00:58:48,599 --> 00:58:52,670 oh 1217 00:58:56,809 --> 00:58:54,470 this is Jimmy Church of Fade to 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01:03:08,210 --> 01:03:03,240 world none of them 1318 01:03:12,410 --> 01:03:10,370 the pursuit 1319 01:03:15,470 --> 01:03:12,420 of love 1320 01:03:19,970 --> 01:03:15,480 is why we are here 1321 01:03:22,789 --> 01:03:19,980 that moment right that that tingle and 1322 01:03:26,210 --> 01:03:22,799 once you feel it once and you know what 1323 01:03:32,210 --> 01:03:28,130 you can't get enough of it 1324 01:03:35,990 --> 01:03:32,220 you will continue to pursue it 1325 01:03:43,750 --> 01:03:37,730 that's it 1326 01:03:47,329 --> 01:03:45,470 the 1327 01:03:49,609 --> 01:03:47,339 idea 1328 01:03:51,950 --> 01:03:49,619 that somebody has 1329 01:03:55,970 --> 01:03:51,960 in The Pursuit Of Love 1330 01:04:00,349 --> 01:03:55,980 they will list their accomplishments 1331 01:04:02,329 --> 01:04:00,359 look you know go go to any dating app go 1332 01:04:04,730 --> 01:04:02,339 to any dating website take a look at the 1333 01:04:05,690 --> 01:04:04,740 profiles I've got a great job I've got a 1334 01:04:08,630 --> 01:04:05,700 great house 1335 01:04:11,450 --> 01:04:08,640 I'm nice I like walks on the beach right 1336 01:04:15,470 --> 01:04:11,460 making yourself appealing so you can go 1337 01:04:19,670 --> 01:04:15,480 and hopefully get that thing 1338 01:04:21,170 --> 01:04:19,680 all right and and so the list of 1339 01:04:23,630 --> 01:04:21,180 stuff 1340 01:04:25,309 --> 01:04:23,640 that I just presented to you 1341 01:04:27,589 --> 01:04:25,319 all of it 1342 01:04:29,809 --> 01:04:27,599 is so 1343 01:04:31,549 --> 01:04:29,819 you can find love 1344 01:04:35,210 --> 01:04:31,559 that's what everybody wants I talked 1345 01:04:37,309 --> 01:04:35,220 about Vladimir Putin he he wants love 1346 01:04:40,010 --> 01:04:37,319 he wants to be loved 1347 01:04:43,010 --> 01:04:40,020 he wants that feeling confetti fat you 1348 01:04:44,829 --> 01:04:43,020 know that's that's all he wants 1349 01:04:48,530 --> 01:04:44,839 right 1350 01:04:52,210 --> 01:04:48,540 it's everything else it's the powers you 1351 01:04:55,569 --> 01:04:52,220 know what drives everybody is love 1352 01:05:00,370 --> 01:04:55,579 the pursuit of it 1353 01:05:06,049 --> 01:05:03,710 list of things 1354 01:05:09,829 --> 01:05:06,059 that somebody is going to present to you 1355 01:05:11,210 --> 01:05:09,839 I don't care if it's Aristotle the Dalai 1356 01:05:12,829 --> 01:05:11,220 Lama 1357 01:05:17,870 --> 01:05:12,839 it's love 1358 01:05:23,089 --> 01:05:17,880 to them but if they tell you you go to 1359 01:05:26,510 --> 01:05:23,099 anybody any one of these Guru big brain 1360 01:05:29,030 --> 01:05:26,520 thinkers that are going to give you a 1361 01:05:31,309 --> 01:05:29,040 list of qualifications or the British 1362 01:05:35,270 --> 01:05:31,319 government right of what the meaning of 1363 01:05:40,190 --> 01:05:35,280 life is if they if if if 1364 01:05:43,549 --> 01:05:40,200 if any of them so uh so Guru 1365 01:05:45,890 --> 01:05:43,559 what's the meaning of life love 1366 01:05:49,450 --> 01:05:45,900 that's it 1367 01:05:53,150 --> 01:05:49,460 really I mean I was thinking that 1368 01:05:55,069 --> 01:05:53,160 but really it's that simple it's that 1369 01:05:57,230 --> 01:05:55,079 simple 1370 01:05:59,210 --> 01:05:57,240 but what about what about this this this 1371 01:06:03,530 --> 01:05:59,220 is It's Love 1372 01:06:07,730 --> 01:06:03,540 but but I thought that my job it's love 1373 01:06:09,309 --> 01:06:07,740 okay all right so by dropping that one 1374 01:06:15,589 --> 01:06:09,319 word 1375 01:06:18,589 --> 01:06:15,599 their books their thing it's worthless 1376 01:06:21,410 --> 01:06:18,599 so they can't tell you that the meaning 1377 01:06:22,670 --> 01:06:21,420 of life is low 1378 01:06:25,849 --> 01:06:22,680 because 1379 01:06:27,770 --> 01:06:25,859 that negates their purpose right they 1380 01:06:30,490 --> 01:06:27,780 can't do that they've got to dangle that 1381 01:06:33,049 --> 01:06:30,500 carrot out there if they came at you 1382 01:06:34,190 --> 01:06:33,059 with that one word 1383 01:06:37,010 --> 01:06:34,200 love 1384 01:06:39,230 --> 01:06:37,020 because it all makes sense then 1385 01:06:42,170 --> 01:06:39,240 it all makes sense it's it's just like 1386 01:06:45,470 --> 01:06:42,180 wow 1387 01:06:48,910 --> 01:06:45,480 really I mean the Beatles sang about it 1388 01:06:56,630 --> 01:06:52,430 that's it 1389 01:06:58,329 --> 01:06:56,640 you know we go to the fundamental 1390 01:07:05,150 --> 01:06:58,339 questions 1391 01:07:08,210 --> 01:07:05,160 on each one of them 1392 01:07:09,289 --> 01:07:08,220 right what is the meaning of life love 1393 01:07:12,109 --> 01:07:09,299 okay 1394 01:07:15,010 --> 01:07:12,119 why are we here love 1395 01:07:19,849 --> 01:07:15,020 right that's some deep philosophical 1396 01:07:23,390 --> 01:07:19,859 existential crazy complex thing that is 1397 01:07:26,930 --> 01:07:23,400 going to throw you off the scent 1398 01:07:29,990 --> 01:07:26,940 what is life all about love 1399 01:07:34,309 --> 01:07:30,000 wow really 1400 01:07:37,190 --> 01:07:34,319 it seems so simple 1401 01:07:40,430 --> 01:07:37,200 love yeah yeah love 1402 01:07:43,010 --> 01:07:40,440 what is the purpose of existence 1403 01:07:45,609 --> 01:07:43,020 love 1404 01:07:50,390 --> 01:07:45,619 there is nothing like that feeling 1405 01:07:54,230 --> 01:07:50,400 there's simply nothing that is what 1406 01:08:00,410 --> 01:07:56,630 the pursuit 1407 01:08:04,990 --> 01:08:03,470 we've all done it when we were 10. oh 1408 01:08:06,950 --> 01:08:05,000 yeah 1409 01:08:11,569 --> 01:08:06,960 Valentine's Day 1410 01:08:14,750 --> 01:08:11,579 right and and and you've got your 1411 01:08:16,550 --> 01:08:14,760 your fourth grade you got your paperback 1412 01:08:18,650 --> 01:08:16,560 of Valentine's that you filled out the 1413 01:08:20,930 --> 01:08:18,660 night before with your mom 1414 01:08:22,490 --> 01:08:20,940 and uh you gotta and you're gonna hand 1415 01:08:27,530 --> 01:08:22,500 out the Valentine's Day but there's one 1416 01:08:27,540 --> 01:08:30,709 that's right 1417 01:08:38,950 --> 01:08:32,930 love 1418 01:08:44,990 --> 01:08:42,410 you go back to my comments about my 1419 01:08:47,329 --> 01:08:45,000 friend in in the in the house is his 1420 01:08:49,189 --> 01:08:47,339 dad's house that I went to and you see 1421 01:08:51,349 --> 01:08:49,199 this cold existence and you see this 1422 01:08:54,769 --> 01:08:51,359 example there 1423 01:08:56,930 --> 01:08:54,779 right and no matter how 1424 01:08:59,950 --> 01:08:56,940 this Father Figure is going to project 1425 01:09:04,130 --> 01:08:59,960 himself and it's certainly on on his son 1426 01:09:07,430 --> 01:09:04,140 and in a belief system and everything I 1427 01:09:09,650 --> 01:09:07,440 get I guarantee you no matter what he 1428 01:09:12,769 --> 01:09:09,660 has to say oh man the meaning of life is 1429 01:09:15,829 --> 01:09:12,779 just having things because after it's 1430 01:09:17,570 --> 01:09:15,839 all over he's lying 1431 01:09:20,390 --> 01:09:17,580 he's lying 1432 01:09:21,890 --> 01:09:20,400 he wants to feel love 1433 01:09:24,410 --> 01:09:21,900 yeah 1434 01:09:28,010 --> 01:09:24,420 he must have because he had his son 1435 01:09:33,050 --> 01:09:28,020 didn't he did he have a relationship 1436 01:09:34,610 --> 01:09:33,060 ah was he in love with his wife maybe 1437 01:09:36,829 --> 01:09:34,620 they got divorced later I don't know but 1438 01:09:39,370 --> 01:09:36,839 he felt the feeling 1439 01:09:42,950 --> 01:09:39,380 and he knows what it's about so to say 1440 01:09:45,650 --> 01:09:42,960 that this is what life is all about 1441 01:09:48,530 --> 01:09:45,660 right life is all about getting rid of 1442 01:09:52,010 --> 01:09:48,540 the man to have purpose no 1443 01:09:58,189 --> 01:09:55,150 with all of these deep deep 1444 01:10:02,570 --> 01:09:58,199 philosophical and scientific and 1445 01:10:05,209 --> 01:10:02,580 Theological takes on on all of this even 1446 01:10:07,010 --> 01:10:05,219 the metaphysical 1447 01:10:11,630 --> 01:10:07,020 it's love 1448 01:10:15,229 --> 01:10:11,640 is Central and is the core to each one 1449 01:10:20,149 --> 01:10:15,239 of those I dare say belief systems and 1450 01:10:24,950 --> 01:10:22,070 love is right there it's right in the 1451 01:10:29,990 --> 01:10:27,890 I talked about uh The Hitchhiker's Guide 1452 01:10:32,750 --> 01:10:30,000 uh to the universe 1453 01:10:34,729 --> 01:10:32,760 what if what if deep thought that 1454 01:10:37,669 --> 01:10:34,739 computer spit that out 1455 01:10:40,370 --> 01:10:37,679 and it wasn't 42. 1456 01:10:41,689 --> 01:10:40,380 which is simple right but spit that out 1457 01:10:42,890 --> 01:10:41,699 love 1458 01:10:45,950 --> 01:10:42,900 right 1459 01:10:47,930 --> 01:10:45,960 it makes a lot of sense 1460 01:10:49,790 --> 01:10:47,940 now I'm not saying that Doug Adams 1461 01:10:52,070 --> 01:10:49,800 missed the mark he wrote his book and he 1462 01:10:55,130 --> 01:10:52,080 put 42 in there and he forced us all to 1463 01:10:56,870 --> 01:10:55,140 think and have conversations about this 1464 01:11:02,030 --> 01:10:56,880 but yeah 1465 01:11:05,030 --> 01:11:02,040 and so if we swing this back around 1466 01:11:08,350 --> 01:11:05,040 to happiness 1467 01:11:12,530 --> 01:11:08,360 right now 1468 01:11:14,750 --> 01:11:12,540 the the again the classic the classic 1469 01:11:17,209 --> 01:11:14,760 presentation of a square is a rectangle 1470 01:11:18,830 --> 01:11:17,219 but a rectangle is not a square thing 1471 01:11:26,090 --> 01:11:18,840 the 1472 01:11:32,270 --> 01:11:29,570 that brings happiness it should 1473 01:11:35,330 --> 01:11:32,280 so that's why it one is not the other 1474 01:11:37,689 --> 01:11:35,340 happiness is not love you can find 1475 01:11:42,229 --> 01:11:37,699 happiness in 1476 01:11:45,229 --> 01:11:42,239 and working out you can find happiness 1477 01:11:47,870 --> 01:11:45,239 in in writing a great screenplay you can 1478 01:11:51,110 --> 01:11:47,880 find happiness and and so many different 1479 01:11:54,110 --> 01:11:51,120 things but that's not love but if you 1480 01:11:58,070 --> 01:11:54,120 find love then you get your happiness is 1481 01:12:01,270 --> 01:11:58,080 bliss love no Bliss is not Bliss is that 1482 01:12:04,910 --> 01:12:01,280 internal thing that only you know about 1483 01:12:06,410 --> 01:12:04,920 only you only you you know and some 1484 01:12:09,950 --> 01:12:06,420 people 1485 01:12:14,209 --> 01:12:09,960 um uh we'll discuss Bliss and we'll 1486 01:12:17,570 --> 01:12:14,219 discuss what it is and it I mean could 1487 01:12:20,390 --> 01:12:17,580 Bliss be love I don't I don't think so 1488 01:12:23,630 --> 01:12:20,400 I don't think so anything is possible 1489 01:12:25,550 --> 01:12:23,640 but what I am suggesting here 1490 01:12:28,070 --> 01:12:25,560 is that 1491 01:12:31,250 --> 01:12:28,080 most people don't talk about Bliss 1492 01:12:33,350 --> 01:12:31,260 because they haven't done it and they 1493 01:12:35,450 --> 01:12:33,360 don't want to hear 1494 01:12:37,070 --> 01:12:35,460 from everybody 1495 01:12:38,390 --> 01:12:37,080 well why don't you just go and do that 1496 01:12:40,189 --> 01:12:38,400 then 1497 01:12:42,350 --> 01:12:40,199 they don't want to hear that what are 1498 01:12:44,270 --> 01:12:42,360 you waiting for I didn't know that about 1499 01:12:46,790 --> 01:12:44,280 you why why are you sitting on your 1500 01:12:48,530 --> 01:12:46,800 hands life is short 1501 01:12:49,729 --> 01:12:48,540 go and do it they don't want to hear 1502 01:12:51,590 --> 01:12:49,739 that 1503 01:12:52,750 --> 01:12:51,600 they don't want to reveal it because 1504 01:12:55,010 --> 01:12:52,760 they don't want to hear it 1505 01:12:57,709 --> 01:12:55,020 procrastination is a tough thing I fight 1506 01:12:59,689 --> 01:12:57,719 that I fight that demon every single day 1507 01:13:03,229 --> 01:12:59,699 man I will put something off till 1508 01:13:06,169 --> 01:13:03,239 tomorrow like man if if I've got a fault 1509 01:13:08,149 --> 01:13:06,179 it's that right and we all do and that's 1510 01:13:09,830 --> 01:13:08,159 the problem with bliss is 1511 01:13:12,850 --> 01:13:09,840 procrastination I'll do it next week 1512 01:13:17,390 --> 01:13:12,860 I'll do it next week 1513 01:13:19,010 --> 01:13:17,400 definitely in six months I'm going back 1514 01:13:20,750 --> 01:13:19,020 to school I'm gonna go do this I'm 1515 01:13:22,729 --> 01:13:20,760 definitely gonna and then next thing you 1516 01:13:25,490 --> 01:13:22,739 know right but that's 1517 01:13:28,070 --> 01:13:25,500 that's why it can't be love I'm gonna 1518 01:13:32,390 --> 01:13:28,080 I'm gonna find love next week I'm I'm 1519 01:13:33,950 --> 01:13:32,400 not uh love is in my Bliss box on the 1520 01:13:36,590 --> 01:13:33,960 shelf and I'm not going to mess with no 1521 01:13:38,090 --> 01:13:36,600 no no no no no no no no 1522 01:13:40,010 --> 01:13:38,100 but 1523 01:13:43,250 --> 01:13:40,020 you find love 1524 01:13:44,689 --> 01:13:43,260 and you reveal your bliss you're gonna 1525 01:13:46,610 --> 01:13:44,699 be around somebody that's going to go 1526 01:13:49,610 --> 01:13:46,620 dude go 1527 01:13:52,370 --> 01:13:49,620 I am here for this is man 1528 01:13:53,750 --> 01:13:52,380 you know and and that's why happiness 1529 01:13:56,450 --> 01:13:53,760 and Bliss 1530 01:13:59,390 --> 01:13:56,460 can reveal itself with love and that's 1531 01:14:01,189 --> 01:13:59,400 why it's that classic square is a 1532 01:14:02,209 --> 01:14:01,199 rectangle but a rectangle is not a 1533 01:14:04,550 --> 01:14:02,219 square 1534 01:14:07,689 --> 01:14:04,560 it's it's exactly why that comes into 1535 01:14:10,790 --> 01:14:07,699 play and I know that a lot of you 1536 01:14:13,189 --> 01:14:10,800 see see exactly and hear exactly what 1537 01:14:14,090 --> 01:14:13,199 I'm saying right now yeah that's right 1538 01:14:17,570 --> 01:14:14,100 yeah 1539 01:14:21,229 --> 01:14:17,580 I happiness would come out of that and 1540 01:14:22,490 --> 01:14:21,239 so therefore happiness could be the 1541 01:14:25,970 --> 01:14:22,500 meaning of life 1542 01:14:28,370 --> 01:14:25,980 right if it comes out of love 1543 01:14:31,850 --> 01:14:28,380 is the basis of everything 1544 01:14:33,530 --> 01:14:31,860 you know and when we take a what we we 1545 01:14:35,689 --> 01:14:33,540 take a hard look back 1546 01:14:38,689 --> 01:14:35,699 and we discuss something like ontology 1547 01:14:39,610 --> 01:14:38,699 which is the science of being 1548 01:14:42,770 --> 01:14:39,620 um 1549 01:14:45,709 --> 01:14:42,780 that whole outlook 1550 01:14:47,870 --> 01:14:45,719 their whole Manifesto if you look at 1551 01:14:48,890 --> 01:14:47,880 that and they stuck the word love in 1552 01:14:51,590 --> 01:14:48,900 there 1553 01:14:57,590 --> 01:14:51,600 it would all make sense 1554 01:15:01,010 --> 01:14:57,600 many love is a is a self-centered thing 1555 01:15:05,689 --> 01:15:01,020 and I I get that I I totally totally get 1556 01:15:09,950 --> 01:15:05,699 it I totally totally understand right I 1557 01:15:12,709 --> 01:15:09,960 do and so in the science of being 1558 01:15:14,510 --> 01:15:12,719 if if that's what you want to do if you 1559 01:15:18,430 --> 01:15:14,520 want to be that self-centered and make 1560 01:15:21,590 --> 01:15:18,440 make love your your 1561 01:15:23,689 --> 01:15:21,600 ontological view which is a word by the 1562 01:15:26,630 --> 01:15:23,699 way that's fine 1563 01:15:30,590 --> 01:15:26,640 but it's love that will give you the 1564 01:15:33,470 --> 01:15:30,600 meaning of life and when we we go back 1565 01:15:37,010 --> 01:15:33,480 and and look at something like 1566 01:15:39,770 --> 01:15:37,020 um uh Paul Wong's four-point system 1567 01:15:42,050 --> 01:15:39,780 I want to go over this one more time 1568 01:15:44,030 --> 01:15:42,060 because now that you know that love is 1569 01:15:48,110 --> 01:15:44,040 the meaning of life 1570 01:15:51,169 --> 01:15:48,120 when you listen to this 1571 01:15:54,050 --> 01:15:51,179 you you understand why Paul Wong is 1572 01:15:57,110 --> 01:15:54,060 wrong he's completely off of the Mark 1573 01:16:00,050 --> 01:15:57,120 he's not even close to being 1574 01:16:01,970 --> 01:16:00,060 part of reality here because his 1575 01:16:04,189 --> 01:16:01,980 four-point system and this is something 1576 01:16:06,590 --> 01:16:04,199 that is published 1577 01:16:09,169 --> 01:16:06,600 right you need to choose a worthy 1578 01:16:11,330 --> 01:16:09,179 purpose or a significant life goal that 1579 01:16:13,910 --> 01:16:11,340 is not the meaning of life 1580 01:16:16,070 --> 01:16:13,920 it's not even close love is the meaning 1581 01:16:17,810 --> 01:16:16,080 of life 1582 01:16:21,410 --> 01:16:17,820 his second point you need to have 1583 01:16:23,990 --> 01:16:21,420 sufficient understanding of who you are 1584 01:16:27,890 --> 01:16:24,000 what does that even mean what life 1585 01:16:30,649 --> 01:16:27,900 demands of you that's not love 1586 01:16:32,750 --> 01:16:30,659 and how you can play a significant role 1587 01:16:35,570 --> 01:16:32,760 in life no 1588 01:16:38,030 --> 01:16:35,580 no he's just completely wrong 1589 01:16:39,950 --> 01:16:38,040 you and you alone are responsible for 1590 01:16:43,850 --> 01:16:39,960 deciding what kind of life you want to 1591 01:16:45,350 --> 01:16:43,860 live again he is wrong you will enjoy a 1592 01:16:47,030 --> 01:16:45,360 deep sense of significance and 1593 01:16:48,950 --> 01:16:47,040 satisfaction only when you have 1594 01:16:52,250 --> 01:16:48,960 exercised your responsibility for 1595 01:16:55,790 --> 01:16:52,260 self-determination and actively pursue a 1596 01:16:58,010 --> 01:16:55,800 worthy life goal he can't be farther off 1597 01:17:01,070 --> 01:16:58,020 of the mark 1598 01:17:03,770 --> 01:17:01,080 he can't so if Paul Wong 1599 01:17:05,090 --> 01:17:03,780 again I'm going to say that it's just a 1600 01:17:08,990 --> 01:17:05,100 load of crap 1601 01:17:12,229 --> 01:17:09,000 but he he this is his 1602 01:17:15,350 --> 01:17:12,239 personal definition 1603 01:17:22,370 --> 01:17:19,910 he when he lists and it it's so funny 1604 01:17:25,669 --> 01:17:22,380 for for somebody with a deep 1605 01:17:27,709 --> 01:17:25,679 philosophical view like Paul Wong and 1606 01:17:29,810 --> 01:17:27,719 you go okay so Paul 1607 01:17:31,430 --> 01:17:29,820 um you're you're a psychiatrist man and 1608 01:17:33,050 --> 01:17:31,440 and and I did you know I'm having 1609 01:17:35,890 --> 01:17:33,060 trouble understanding what's going on 1610 01:17:39,410 --> 01:17:35,900 and I really need the meaning of life 1611 01:17:41,990 --> 01:17:39,420 and and if Paul turns to him and says 1612 01:17:43,970 --> 01:17:42,000 man it's love 1613 01:17:46,910 --> 01:17:43,980 he doesn't have to say Ben the purpose 1614 01:17:48,410 --> 01:17:46,920 of life man is is to have a purpose it's 1615 01:17:51,050 --> 01:17:48,420 to have understanding it's 1616 01:17:52,130 --> 01:17:51,060 responsibility and enjoyment you get 1617 01:17:53,810 --> 01:17:52,140 through those four things you're gonna 1618 01:17:56,090 --> 01:17:53,820 have the meaning of you are not telling 1619 01:17:59,570 --> 01:17:56,100 anybody anything first off anything that 1620 01:18:04,370 --> 01:18:02,510 but you're sending them down the wrong 1621 01:18:07,250 --> 01:18:04,380 path 1622 01:18:09,530 --> 01:18:07,260 it's unbelievable to me 1623 01:18:11,510 --> 01:18:09,540 it's unbelievable when we get into 1624 01:18:14,090 --> 01:18:11,520 things like ethics 1625 01:18:16,729 --> 01:18:14,100 and uh you know Free Will and making 1626 01:18:19,490 --> 01:18:16,739 your own decisions it doesn't make any 1627 01:18:21,169 --> 01:18:19,500 sense to me when you when you look at 1628 01:18:23,570 --> 01:18:21,179 the legalists 1629 01:18:26,270 --> 01:18:23,580 and I I listed all of this for a reason 1630 01:18:28,990 --> 01:18:26,280 but when you look at the legalists who 1631 01:18:31,910 --> 01:18:29,000 literally believe 1632 01:18:33,890 --> 01:18:31,920 that the purpose of life is a 1633 01:18:34,850 --> 01:18:33,900 meaningless effort even thinking about 1634 01:18:37,850 --> 01:18:34,860 it 1635 01:18:41,090 --> 01:18:37,860 just doesn't make any sense right 1636 01:18:44,830 --> 01:18:41,100 that only practical knowledge is is is 1637 01:18:48,350 --> 01:18:44,840 the meaning of life 1638 01:18:49,729 --> 01:18:48,360 they wouldn't have if if it was all 1639 01:18:52,430 --> 01:18:49,739 switched around 1640 01:18:55,729 --> 01:18:52,440 and you you just can't do it because the 1641 01:18:58,310 --> 01:18:55,739 belief systems are so ingrained but if 1642 01:19:02,090 --> 01:18:58,320 you wanted to jump in to the legalist 1643 01:19:06,110 --> 01:19:02,100 Community the Confucianism community 1644 01:19:08,450 --> 01:19:06,120 right the scientific community and 1645 01:19:10,310 --> 01:19:08,460 inject love into all of their 1646 01:19:12,890 --> 01:19:10,320 conversations about the meaning of life 1647 01:19:14,750 --> 01:19:12,900 and they're gonna come back and try to 1648 01:19:17,530 --> 01:19:14,760 argue that they can't 1649 01:19:21,050 --> 01:19:17,540 because when you get into the scientific 1650 01:19:23,030 --> 01:19:21,060 modality that understanding the brain is 1651 01:19:25,070 --> 01:19:23,040 the meaning of life and once we've got 1652 01:19:27,830 --> 01:19:25,080 that figured out all life answers are 1653 01:19:29,330 --> 01:19:27,840 going to be there it's it's simply an 1654 01:19:36,169 --> 01:19:29,340 untruth 1655 01:19:39,709 --> 01:19:36,179 saying that no scientist uh will ever be 1656 01:19:41,990 --> 01:19:39,719 married or fall in love or have kids 1657 01:19:43,550 --> 01:19:42,000 you know and which is what life is all 1658 01:19:48,110 --> 01:19:43,560 about 1659 01:19:53,450 --> 01:19:50,510 I will stick to this 1660 01:19:56,990 --> 01:19:53,460 love is the meaning of life 1661 01:20:00,229 --> 01:19:57,000 now with with me I mean me personally 1662 01:20:01,790 --> 01:20:00,239 I'm not any different than than all of 1663 01:20:03,709 --> 01:20:01,800 you 1664 01:20:07,189 --> 01:20:03,719 I'm simply not 1665 01:20:09,229 --> 01:20:07,199 you know I've had uh I've had those a 1666 01:20:11,870 --> 01:20:09,239 few instances in my life I could 1667 01:20:14,390 --> 01:20:11,880 probably count them on one hand where 1668 01:20:18,169 --> 01:20:14,400 you know holy you know you had that holy 1669 01:20:21,410 --> 01:20:18,179 crap moment and I was at um 1670 01:20:23,810 --> 01:20:21,420 I was at a trade show and I think it was 1671 01:20:26,090 --> 01:20:23,820 in New York it might have uh it might 1672 01:20:27,890 --> 01:20:26,100 have been Las Vegas 1673 01:20:31,070 --> 01:20:27,900 um I'm at a trade show 1674 01:20:32,689 --> 01:20:31,080 and a group of people came up and one of 1675 01:20:34,669 --> 01:20:32,699 the guys I knew and there was like five 1676 01:20:37,729 --> 01:20:34,679 people and 1677 01:20:40,250 --> 01:20:37,739 um and this is deeply personal but we've 1678 01:20:41,870 --> 01:20:40,260 all had this experience right 1679 01:20:43,010 --> 01:20:41,880 where 1680 01:20:47,330 --> 01:20:43,020 um 1681 01:20:50,149 --> 01:20:47,340 I get introduced I make eye contact 1682 01:20:52,689 --> 01:20:50,159 with this woman in this group 1683 01:20:59,209 --> 01:20:52,699 and it was 1684 01:20:59,219 --> 01:21:02,630 four-day convention 1685 01:21:08,270 --> 01:21:05,510 Thursday Friday Saturday Sunday 1686 01:21:10,209 --> 01:21:08,280 right that was a Thursday morning that 1687 01:21:12,770 --> 01:21:10,219 happened 1688 01:21:15,709 --> 01:21:12,780 ruined by convention 1689 01:21:17,570 --> 01:21:15,719 I couldn't think 1690 01:21:19,370 --> 01:21:17,580 I couldn't talk I couldn't do anything 1691 01:21:21,470 --> 01:21:19,380 for four days 1692 01:21:23,209 --> 01:21:21,480 what bap 1693 01:21:24,470 --> 01:21:23,219 right now 1694 01:21:26,810 --> 01:21:24,480 um 1695 01:21:30,110 --> 01:21:26,820 never saw her again 1696 01:21:33,649 --> 01:21:30,120 I'm not not suggesting anything right 1697 01:21:36,290 --> 01:21:33,659 but that feeling 1698 01:21:39,229 --> 01:21:36,300 that feeling 1699 01:21:42,229 --> 01:21:39,239 friggin incredible 1700 01:21:45,290 --> 01:21:42,239 it was incredible we hung out for three 1701 01:21:47,930 --> 01:21:45,300 four days and and talked and ate and had 1702 01:21:50,750 --> 01:21:47,940 dinner and then boom 1703 01:21:52,430 --> 01:21:50,760 she flew back to Europe and that was the 1704 01:21:54,530 --> 01:21:52,440 end of it 1705 01:21:57,590 --> 01:21:54,540 right 1706 01:22:00,290 --> 01:21:57,600 that feeling that is what life is all 1707 01:22:05,090 --> 01:22:02,810 I'm going to leave you with this thought 1708 01:22:08,149 --> 01:22:05,100 are we the only species on this planet 1709 01:22:11,330 --> 01:22:08,159 that that does that 1710 01:22:12,290 --> 01:22:11,340 and I'm not so sure that that is the 1711 01:22:14,450 --> 01:22:12,300 case 1712 01:22:16,070 --> 01:22:14,460 I'm not so sure 1713 01:22:18,950 --> 01:22:16,080 I think dogs 1714 01:22:21,590 --> 01:22:18,960 they're not cats cats don't love they 1715 01:22:23,750 --> 01:22:21,600 don't they don't give a crap 1716 01:22:26,930 --> 01:22:23,760 dogs I think love 1717 01:22:30,350 --> 01:22:26,940 I think primates love 1718 01:22:33,169 --> 01:22:30,360 you can you can see that interaction 1719 01:22:36,290 --> 01:22:33,179 um in those groups I think Dolphins love 1720 01:22:39,890 --> 01:22:36,300 you know and and certainty octopus I 1721 01:22:42,229 --> 01:22:39,900 think they love I I I truly do 1722 01:22:44,149 --> 01:22:42,239 um they they know what that feeling is 1723 01:22:45,709 --> 01:22:44,159 and you can see it in primary you can 1724 01:22:49,490 --> 01:22:45,719 see it in dogs 1725 01:22:52,430 --> 01:22:49,500 right and and there's nothing worse 1726 01:22:54,950 --> 01:22:52,440 right than getting separated from your 1727 01:22:55,669 --> 01:22:54,960 dog man for whatever reason that goes 1728 01:22:58,130 --> 01:22:55,679 down 1729 01:23:01,189 --> 01:22:58,140 it wrecks you 1730 01:23:02,930 --> 01:23:01,199 because that's love right that that you 1731 01:23:06,229 --> 01:23:02,940 want that feeling you want that feeling 1732 01:23:08,450 --> 01:23:06,239 and you will go out and get a puppy 1733 01:23:10,970 --> 01:23:08,460 the next day 1734 01:23:12,950 --> 01:23:10,980 because you want that feeling back 1735 01:23:14,990 --> 01:23:12,960 I want that back 1736 01:23:19,010 --> 01:23:15,000 and that's what life is all about it 1737 01:23:21,530 --> 01:23:19,020 isn't about cars cars are nice I love 1738 01:23:24,649 --> 01:23:21,540 cars it's not about watches it's not 1739 01:23:28,729 --> 01:23:24,659 about shoes or clothes or houses all 1740 01:23:30,590 --> 01:23:28,739 those things are nice they make life you 1741 01:23:32,870 --> 01:23:30,600 know pretty cool 1742 01:23:34,550 --> 01:23:32,880 but it's not the meaning of life 1743 01:23:38,689 --> 01:23:34,560 it's not the material things the 1744 01:23:43,189 --> 01:23:38,699 material things make life fun 1745 01:23:45,590 --> 01:23:43,199 they do they do I um uh I I like 1746 01:23:49,010 --> 01:23:45,600 building models and I am in the middle 1747 01:23:50,750 --> 01:23:49,020 of this gnarly project right now 1748 01:23:53,270 --> 01:23:50,760 all right I'll give you an example of 1749 01:23:54,290 --> 01:23:53,280 material things that make you happy I'm 1750 01:23:58,450 --> 01:23:54,300 building 1751 01:24:04,430 --> 01:24:02,689 1966 Ford GT40 the one that won Lamar 1752 01:24:07,729 --> 01:24:04,440 okay 1753 01:24:11,149 --> 01:24:07,739 the gorgeous blue with the orange stripe 1754 01:24:14,570 --> 01:24:11,159 and if you ever look at the colors of 1755 01:24:20,630 --> 01:24:14,580 the Fade to Black company logo 1756 01:24:21,830 --> 01:24:20,640 those the colors of the 1966 Gulf GT40 1757 01:24:25,910 --> 01:24:21,840 Ford 1758 01:24:28,130 --> 01:24:25,920 Ferrari that's the car I'm talking about 1759 01:24:32,090 --> 01:24:28,140 I'm building that model 1760 01:24:34,130 --> 01:24:32,100 and um it's it's redonkulous it's a it's 1761 01:24:36,649 --> 01:24:34,140 a crazy build it's a lot of fun 1762 01:24:39,530 --> 01:24:36,659 and yesterday 1763 01:24:42,709 --> 01:24:39,540 I was adding the shocks 1764 01:24:45,290 --> 01:24:42,719 uh to the front suspension system and I 1765 01:24:46,430 --> 01:24:45,300 popped this it's it's a very complex 1766 01:24:49,130 --> 01:24:46,440 model 1767 01:24:52,850 --> 01:24:49,140 and it broke 1768 01:24:54,890 --> 01:24:52,860 it broke had to write the company I had 1769 01:24:57,770 --> 01:24:54,900 to send them photographs of the shock I 1770 01:25:00,649 --> 01:24:57,780 did all of that last night at midnight 1771 01:25:03,169 --> 01:25:00,659 and uh got a response back from the 1772 01:25:06,350 --> 01:25:03,179 company today but 1773 01:25:10,370 --> 01:25:07,790 happy man 1774 01:25:12,470 --> 01:25:10,380 that's the the it's it's little things 1775 01:25:15,169 --> 01:25:12,480 like that those types of material things 1776 01:25:17,570 --> 01:25:15,179 that that make me happy I like I like to 1777 01:25:18,770 --> 01:25:17,580 build models you ever come over to my 1778 01:25:21,709 --> 01:25:18,780 house you're going to see a lot of 1779 01:25:25,970 --> 01:25:21,719 models I got I got lots of car models I 1780 01:25:27,530 --> 01:25:25,980 got boxes and boxes I've got cases of 1781 01:25:29,750 --> 01:25:27,540 car models that I've built over the 1782 01:25:32,750 --> 01:25:29,760 years that are that are in storage 1783 01:25:35,090 --> 01:25:32,760 so I've got hundreds of them 1784 01:25:37,550 --> 01:25:35,100 I love building models it's one of those 1785 01:25:39,770 --> 01:25:37,560 things but it's a material thing it's 1786 01:25:41,209 --> 01:25:39,780 not the meaning of life 1787 01:25:44,209 --> 01:25:41,219 it's something that makes me happy 1788 01:25:46,550 --> 01:25:44,219 obviously I love guitars I love working 1789 01:25:47,630 --> 01:25:46,560 on guitars but they're just material 1790 01:25:50,330 --> 01:25:47,640 things 1791 01:25:53,930 --> 01:25:50,340 it's not love 1792 01:25:56,689 --> 01:25:53,940 I don't get that feeling when I get a 1793 01:25:59,090 --> 01:25:56,699 guitar hole I don't get that feeling 1794 01:26:00,410 --> 01:25:59,100 get a nice car model I don't get that 1795 01:26:02,510 --> 01:26:00,420 feeling 1796 01:26:06,830 --> 01:26:02,520 now 1797 01:26:08,870 --> 01:26:06,840 I want that feeling and the only way is 1798 01:26:11,930 --> 01:26:08,880 to live life and that's the meaning of 1799 01:26:13,790 --> 01:26:11,940 life and to go and find it once again 1800 01:26:17,689 --> 01:26:13,800 it's great 1801 01:26:20,030 --> 01:26:17,699 it's what life is all about and that 1802 01:26:22,629 --> 01:26:20,040 is the meaning of life 1803 01:26:25,610 --> 01:26:22,639 so there you go that's my show tonight 1804 01:26:29,209 --> 01:26:25,620 uh it's not love that's a great song by 1805 01:26:34,070 --> 01:26:29,219 uh by Dokken by the way 1806 01:26:34,689 --> 01:26:34,080 uh cats do to love no they don't 1807 01:26:38,030 --> 01:26:34,699 know 1808 01:26:41,810 --> 01:26:38,040 only a cat person will say that I mean 1809 01:26:46,550 --> 01:26:41,820 they're they in such dinner my kid loves 1810 01:26:48,550 --> 01:26:46,560 me my kid left my ear your cat your cat 1811 01:26:50,930 --> 01:26:48,560 cannot wait for you to leave the house 1812 01:26:52,550 --> 01:26:50,940 cannot wait 1813 01:26:54,649 --> 01:26:52,560 for you to leave the house so they can 1814 01:26:57,890 --> 01:26:54,659 do their thing you come home they're 1815 01:27:02,270 --> 01:26:57,900 like oh man I gotta act like I love this 1816 01:27:03,530 --> 01:27:02,280 oh geez man that that's a cat cat cannot 1817 01:27:06,470 --> 01:27:03,540 wait for you to leave 1818 01:27:08,209 --> 01:27:06,480 if a cat loves you how come you can 1819 01:27:10,910 --> 01:27:08,219 leave the house for three days and they 1820 01:27:12,649 --> 01:27:10,920 don't give a crap you go on vacation you 1821 01:27:14,930 --> 01:27:12,659 leave out some cat food 1822 01:27:17,570 --> 01:27:14,940 make sure that the kitty litter box is 1823 01:27:20,870 --> 01:27:17,580 clean that's all they need that's they 1824 01:27:22,310 --> 01:27:20,880 that's that's you to them 1825 01:27:23,709 --> 01:27:22,320 yeah 1826 01:27:26,390 --> 01:27:23,719 cat cat 1827 01:27:29,870 --> 01:27:26,400 is it Jessica's birthday I saw that 1828 01:27:32,930 --> 01:27:29,880 earlier um happy birthday uh uh Jessica 1829 01:27:34,970 --> 01:27:32,940 very very cool what's Jessica by the way 1830 01:27:37,970 --> 01:27:34,980 I just see Jessica there's there's two 1831 01:27:39,950 --> 01:27:37,980 Jessica's so uh well happy birthday to 1832 01:27:43,729 --> 01:27:39,960 both of you 1833 01:27:44,810 --> 01:27:43,739 um but uh yeah yeah cat I was gonna go 1834 01:27:47,689 --> 01:27:44,820 through 1835 01:27:51,050 --> 01:27:47,699 um uh all of the chat room stuff but I'm 1836 01:27:53,330 --> 01:27:51,060 gonna leave that with you tonight and uh 1837 01:27:56,689 --> 01:27:53,340 it was a very deep show I think it's an 1838 01:27:58,550 --> 01:27:56,699 honest show that um in the end I think 1839 01:28:01,970 --> 01:27:58,560 that all of us have something to think 1840 01:28:04,490 --> 01:28:01,980 about whatever your uh system of of 1841 01:28:06,890 --> 01:28:04,500 living is you know do your own thing 1842 01:28:08,629 --> 01:28:06,900 whatever it is I talk a lot about Bliss 1843 01:28:09,709 --> 01:28:08,639 and happiness I do that a lot on this 1844 01:28:13,729 --> 01:28:09,719 show 1845 01:28:16,910 --> 01:28:13,739 um go and do your thing and whatever it 1846 01:28:19,790 --> 01:28:16,920 is that inspires you you know go and do 1847 01:28:20,930 --> 01:28:19,800 it absolutely go and do it and and think 1848 01:28:23,270 --> 01:28:20,940 about 1849 01:28:24,649 --> 01:28:23,280 um all of the World Views that I laid 1850 01:28:28,370 --> 01:28:24,659 out today 1851 01:28:30,410 --> 01:28:28,380 and and tell me that I'm not wrong to 1852 01:28:31,729 --> 01:28:30,420 say to me you're not wrong 1853 01:28:34,910 --> 01:28:31,739 love 1854 01:28:36,709 --> 01:28:34,920 is the meaning of life this is Fade to 1855 01:28:39,169 --> 01:28:36,719 Black I am your host Jimmy church 1856 01:28:43,490 --> 01:28:39,179 tomorrow night right here I have Daniel 1857 01:28:45,229 --> 01:28:43,500 haraway on the show and uh we're gonna 1858 01:28:47,209 --> 01:28:45,239 talk about his new book which is about 1859 01:28:49,129 --> 01:28:47,219 his father 1860 01:28:52,490 --> 01:28:49,139 that may have we're gonna find out 1861 01:28:54,649 --> 01:28:52,500 tomorrow night backwards engineered 1862 01:28:56,990 --> 01:28:54,659 a spacecraft that's right that's 1863 01:28:59,330 --> 01:28:57,000 tomorrow night right here on Fade to 1864 01:29:01,250 --> 01:28:59,340 Black everybody have a great safe fun 1865 01:29:04,970 --> 01:29:01,260 and amazing weekend 1866 01:29:12,410 --> 01:29:04,980 Fade to Black is produced by Hilton J 1867 01:29:18,470 --> 01:29:14,450 who's next I can't even remember who's 1868 01:29:21,410 --> 01:29:18,480 next Who's Next who's next in my 1869 01:29:26,149 --> 01:29:21,420 webmaster is Drew the geek 1870 01:29:30,590 --> 01:29:28,490 this is Fade to Black this broadcast on 1871 01:29:32,870 --> 01:29:30,600 the copyrighted 2023 by faded blocking 1872 01:29:34,550 --> 01:29:32,880 the game changer networking it cannot be 1873 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